HELP My Husband is a good man but I'm in love with someone else

[nitwit]

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by the way @nitwit ---> swerte lang ka nga wla pa kahibaw imung asawa ana.. basin ipa salvage ka ana

you dont know how capable a man nga na hurt

ive noticed sir,you spoke to me like you know me well. it sounds like to me that you want to insist that i have slept with any guys other than my husband. well, as ive said above, i cant prove it to you and i dont think i owe you a proof since your not my husband. ive posted this thread here for me to express how i feel. this is istorya right? to communicate?express and exchange thoughts? i understand you are just stating your thoughts, but isnt it over the belt naman pud?

[nitwit]

MODERATORS please delete this post. thank you so much.

[nitwit]

@nitwit... pag chure diha oie.


I think youre a spoiled brat that tried to change pag marriage..... but it turns out that imung pagka spoiled ni overcome gyud


Ka defensive nimu sa "i did not slept with that guy" ..... lolz sa imu palang lifestyle and western attutude.. oh common sure diha oie.

sir i admit i have lived here my whole life but i've been brought up by my parents in a traditional way as well. fyi, irish people are like filipinos, theyre culture is pretty much the same.

you talk like you know everything when you know nothing. all you know is what i posted here and thats it. please dont be so judgemental. i'm here cause i need help, not to be judged. i dont mind the critics but be some what resonable.

[Sol_Itaire]

MODERATORS please delete this post. thank you so much.

you mean this thread? no, moderators can't just delete a thread. close, yes.

[unique]

@TS: be strong, you know what you need to do.

[MrsJack]

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running away again i think?!?!

no need to run honey....
its very admirable of you to post something like this in the internet.
like what i've said, you are one strong lady i may say.

you cannot always please everybody.

so all you need to do is DO THE RIGHT THING.
feeling guilty on what you've done is part of the right thing.
...next step is to make the move and correct what you've done.

GET UP!
show the world that you are not as bad as they think!

Good luck!

[kitkeeth]

Goodluck nimo mam...

[dreammae]

btaw sis ako nka sabot ko sa imo sitwastion krn kay hasta ako nka agi ko sa imo sitwasyon ky ingon ana pud ako hubby, moody pud cya dali au masoko unya unsahay dli maistoryahan....nka huna.huna nlng gud ko nga mangita nlng ko og lain, ...og wla gyud nko gbuhat ky i know amo ra gyud ni masulbad duha...nya in 9 yrs namo nga pagkuyog ako gyud na gi antos tanan iya gibuhat, ako cya sulti.an na ingong ana cya unsahay unya kinahanglan inig abot nya gkan sa work mag bonding usa me mag talk me about sa iyang trabaho.mao na nga time nga akong e insert among problema sa usag usa,,sa kadugayan nasulbad ra gyud intawon, nausab na cya, responsible na intawon cya......ingon ana ra gyud sis, antos lng usa gud...ky bsin pagsuway rana sa kahitas.an ..btaw sis e try lng usa og save inyo marriage ky usa pod dli na tubag sa imong problema ang makig minyo ka og lain....if dli na gyud nmo ma antos, take a break lng usa pero ayaw gyud pangita og lain ky bsin sa uwahi makarma unya ka.... take care and God bless you....

[nitwit]

--delete this post?
running away again i think?!?!

no need to run honey....
its very admirable of you to post something like this in the internet.
like what i've said, you are one strong lady i may say.

you cannot always please everybody.

so all you need to do is DO THE RIGHT THING.
feeling guilty on what you've done is part of the right thing.
...next step is to make the move and correct what you've done.

GET UP!
show the world that you are not as bad as they think!

Good luck!

im not running away maam.ive spoke to my hubby last night about it, he was stunned, i was scared as well of what he might do.lucky he didnt hit me he just said we're both gonna take a break but he'll see if he could take a break since work means so much to him.( ive felt so hurt when he said this). but he agreed that i can get a break for myself and think it overand he'll see if he can fly a week or two after. ive told him everything, all my heartaches. he was really mad and he called me names but ive accepted it all cause i had my fault. i told him i wont expect that he can forgive me,if he want to kick me out of the house then his free to do so. or get a divorce. he said we'll try to work it out and see what happens. i dont wanna loose him, i dont want this just for bugger all. i dont want to be in the list of divorcee as much as possible. he said lucky i didnt sleep with any guy otherwise we can never work it out cause he wont tolerate deceit. he said he understand that i wanna take a break not to get away really with it but to weigh things up and see if i really do love him and stay or move on. i made him realized that if he wasnt that busy, my feelings wont be passed on someone else. we're couples but it was like we never act like one. i dont know if this is a good news cause were still on the stage on sorting things out.

[xtn]

stay with ur husband oi.. ma gubot lang mo..istorya mo sa imong bana sa inyong situation.. make things work out... kana imo giingon na na inlove ka sa lain.. na bag ohan ra ka...

good advice.