HELP My Husband is a good man but I'm in love with someone else

[kebot]

its not about s*xual unsatisfaction bro.im not a bed freak. i just felt unwanted, neglected. every time makakita ko sa ako friends,kanang mag dinner date unta mga couples para mag hang out diri, ako lang isa mu attend kay busy ayo siya. makapungot kaayo. mag ask gale ako mga friends asa siya, tubagon lang,his busy. ingnon intawon ko sa bana sa ako friend diri nga, don't u feel neglected? your husband works nearly 24 hours a day and you dont even have a child. murag na addict man ni ako husband sa sige work woi. masuya lang ko magtan-aw sa ako friends nga happy jud sila.

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I was like your husband before and the way I show I dont like my GF is i dont go wherever she goes. Well, I guess your right. Better ask him if he still have feelings. REMEMBER if he cares what you said then He is just BUSY. If he dont bother to think then thats your answer. Whatever his reason he wont say it.... I dont know... its just the way guys work on relationship.. but not all... Gud Luck gurl...

[ranmauelle]

i guess you need a break muna sis... and maybe it will help your husband realize din na he needs to give time sa iya family.

I can see you're a good person but because naay pagkukulang imo bana, mao naingon ana ka. Of course, time and communication is very important jud sa usa ka bana ug asawa. Continue lng to save your relationship. Ipakita din sa imo bana na dili lng pwede puro business, puro kwarta.. Unsa di ay ka para nya? di diay ka importante? Ipakita na sa imo bana na kay naa sya obligation nimo. Buhata tanan aron ma-save inyo relationship. Continue ug likay sa imo guy.

If incase gi-prove sa imo husband na mas importante ang business or money compare sa imoha, then have a break. Uli sa pinas, do what you want... anyway, you know what is right and wrong. Advise lng, ayaw lng sa ug entertain ug guys. Much better sab if magpacounseling ka.

opinion lng ni ako sis. Be strong sis... ana jud nang maminyo ug foreigner. Daghan kaau differences. Pilipino man gani lisod na mag-adjust, how much more if foreigner pa. Show him what really love is kay murag puro business na lng sya. I cannot say you're hubby is really buutan. Maybe in some other things he is.

as far as i know, kung sa pinas pana, pwede na sya i-file ug annulment kay la na sya time sa iya wife. He has an obligation sa iya wife ra ba.

anyway, opinion lng ni.

[black_vixen]

Kuwang lang jud xa ug time nnyong duha. Ako pa nimo, uli ka dri sa pinas, huwata xa nga mangita nimo dn mo apas nimo dri - in which maka spend xa time nimo for vacation. Ngita pa agi na ihatag iyang time nimo. Ayaw lang jud ug cheat.Enjoy ur vacation sa pinas and please be civil and respect your vows. Basta pa apasa xa.

[kebot]

i guess you need a break muna sis... and maybe it will help your husband realize din na he needs to give time sa iya family.

I can see you're a good person but because naay pagkukulang imo bana, mao naingon ana ka. Of course, time and communication is very important jud sa usa ka bana ug asawa. Continue lng to save your relationship. Ipakita din sa imo bana na dili lng pwede puro business, puro kwarta.. Unsa di ay ka para nya? di diay ka importante? Ipakita na sa imo bana na kay naa sya obligation nimo. Buhata tanan aron ma-save inyo relationship. Continue ug likay sa imo guy.

If incase gi-prove sa imo husband na mas importante ang business or money compare sa imoha, then have a break. Uli sa pinas, do what you want... anyway, you know what is right and wrong. Advise lng, ayaw lng sa ug entertain ug guys. Much better sab if magpacounseling ka.

opinion lng ni ako sis. Be strong sis... ana jud nang maminyo ug foreigner. Daghan kaau differences. Pilipino man gani lisod na mag-adjust, how much more if foreigner pa. Show him what really love is kay murag puro business na lng sya. I cannot say you're hubby is really buutan. Maybe in some other things he is.

as far as i know, kung sa pinas pana, pwede na sya i-file ug annulment kay la na sya time sa iya wife. He has an obligation sa iya wife ra ba.

anyway, opinion lng ni.

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Yea TAKE A BREAK not with other guys ha... patay! Nice advice bro. TWO THUMBS UP

[nitwit]

i guess you need a break muna sis... and maybe it will help your husband realize din na he needs to give time sa iya family.

I can see you're a good person but because naay pagkukulang imo bana, mao naingon ana ka. Of course, time and communication is very important jud sa usa ka bana ug asawa. Continue lng to save your relationship. Ipakita din sa imo bana na dili lng pwede puro business, puro kwarta.. Unsa di ay ka para nya? di diay ka importante? Ipakita na sa imo bana na kay naa sya obligation nimo. Buhata tanan aron ma-save inyo relationship. Continue ug likay sa imo guy.

If incase gi-prove sa imo husband na mas importante ang business or money compare sa imoha, then have a break. Uli sa pinas, do what you want... anyway, you know what is right and wrong. Advise lng, ayaw lng sa ug entertain ug guys. Much better sab if magpacounseling ka.

opinion lng ni ako sis. Be strong sis... ana jud nang maminyo ug foreigner. Daghan kaau differences. Pilipino man gani lisod na mag-adjust, how much more if foreigner pa. Show him what really love is kay murag puro business na lng sya. I cannot say you're hubby is really buutan. Maybe in some other things he is.

as far as i know, kung sa pinas pana, pwede na sya i-file ug annulment kay la na sya time sa iya wife. He has an obligation sa iya wife ra ba.

anyway, opinion lng ni.

magbakasyon bitaw ko sis.uli nalang ko balik if ok na me. lisud ang minyo! samotan pa if ang bana nimo wa jud oras. makaana ka,maayo pa ang pobre kay bisan saging,sige lang labing. i dont have plans to let go of my husband, divorce is only our last resort if we cant get through this.

[nitwit]

Kuwang lang jud xa ug time nnyong duha. Ako pa nimo, uli ka dri sa pinas, huwata xa nga mangita nimo dn mo apas nimo dri - in which maka spend xa time nimo for vacation. Ngita pa agi na ihatag iyang time nimo. Ayaw lang jud ug cheat.Enjoy ur vacation sa pinas and please be civil and respect your vows. Basta pa apasa xa.

do u think thats gonna work out?what if he wouldnt?ill be stucked in there for the rest of my life?what about my job here?ive tried layas na once, slept at the park cause i know he is just gonna ring my friends and be at their doorstep tapos if ok na me talk,after a couple day, away napud.singkahay. ive never been such a violent person pero since nagminyo me, ari pako kasuway mamuak ug butang.kutob lang sa malabay para makapagawas sa gibati. makig istorya ko sa ako family,ingnon lang pud ko, thats part of marriage. dont worry,u cant get through that.

as if ana lang kasayon ba.na perti nang sakita sa dughan sa kapungot.

[pael85]

louya sa imu bana oi... pero k rana..

masayop man jud ang taw...

pero sakit jud na siya labi na ako imu bana..

[nitwit]

is there any way i can close this thread?delete all the post?

[kebot]

do u think thats gonna work out?what if he wouldnt?ill be stucked in there for the rest of my life?what about my job here?ive tried layas na once, slept at the park cause i know he is just gonna ring my friends and be at their doorstep tapos if ok na me talk,after a couple day, away napud.singkahay. ive never been such a violent person pero since nagminyo me, ari pako kasuway mamuak ug butang.kutob lang sa malabay para makapagawas sa gibati. makig istorya ko sa ako family,ingnon lang pud ko, thats part of marriage. dont worry,u cant get through that.

as if ana lang kasayon ba.na perti nang sakita sa dughan sa kapungot.

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U said ur husband is a good man right? then i just noticed you are giving us more excuse... is it because of someone else? Is someone else someone or just a friend nothing more to it... Well you don't have to say it its yours to keep. Anyways, What are you looking? you want freedom and how to do it? or you want your husband back? or you want the other nvm for this...

[nitwit]

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U said ur husband is a good man right? then i just noticed you are giving us more excuse... is it because of someone else? Is someone else someone or just a friend nothing more to it... Well you don't have to say it its yours to keep. Anyways, What are you looking? you want freedom and how to do it? or you want your husband back? or you want the other nvm for this...

i want my marriage to work out bro but how?if my husband doesnt have time?i tried to approach him but he always say,later.