Until when ko maghilak?

[luke0917]

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my friend send this to me:

WhEn L O V E DiEs... by Melanie Lim

Sometimes, love dies. And there is no
explanation for it.

Some of us see it coming. Some of us don't. But most of us try not to
see it at all. Because it is easier to pretend that all is well rather
than admit that your dreams have been shattered and you are left only
with the broken pieces of your heart.

It hurts to imagine the person we love with someone else. It hurts to no
longer be the object of his affections. It hurts to no longer be wanted.
It hurts to be discarded, replaced and dumped unceremoniously like an
old rag that has outlived its usefulness.

It hurts to no longer be loved.

But it happens everyday to the best among us--to the beautiful, the
kind, the talented, the smart, the successful, the multi-awarded. It
happens to the perfect wife, sister, friend and mother. It happens to
the civic leader, the CEO, the cover girl.

We've been raised since childhood to believe that love must last
forever. And perhaps it must.
But isn't it possible to simply be happy for the love you have no matter
if it doesn't last forever? Isn't it possible to simply savor the moment
and become richer by it without wanting to posses it forever? Isn't it
possible to love and let go and love again?

Isn't it possible to love forever but to love different people overtime?

It's all right to no longer be loved. It's all right to stop loving.
It's all right to mourn for love's losses but to condemn yourself to a
life of misery because your love did not last forever is foolhardly. If
love must die, let it go peacefully into the night.

But don't keep score. Love is not a contest. It is not a competition to
see who emerges the prettiest, the craftiest or toughest. Love is what
it is-- a gift. It cannot be forced on anyone.
Neither can it be forced out of anyone. So let it be.

When love dies, hold on to the memories. But let go of the one you love.

[Sol_Itaire]

Isn't it possible to love and let go and love again?

Isn't it possible to love forever but to love different people overtime?

I'm thankful to my late grandfather who married three times (twice a widower before marrying my grandmother). His life taught me that love can be reborn.

YES to the above questions.

[dongday]

oi online pa lage ka luke0917? sleep na.. ayaw pa kapoy..... kadlawun na rba oh'.... ang baby..... tsk tsk tsk hehehehe

[UtOkbOlinAO]

"Don't shed to much tears for the person who is not worthed at all",

move on nalang sis, and when all hopes are gone theres always a "BOSACOL" to turn ur world up and down.. (sak2 akong gi.post... murag wala judko kasabot ai... )

[matits]

im sharing my feelings kay huot na jud kau akong dughan, please understand if taas taas ni cya.

i have a bf for 4 years and 7 months. currently i am also 6 months pregnant with our son but were not married. everything was doing good until last sunday, may 10. i accessed my bf's ym then all of a sudden there was a buzz and a msg coming from a girl, the message says "hi luvs", so, i was shocked. i also replied. "hus this", then the girl replied, "ah bag o pa gne ko nilarga nkalimot nka". so i again replied, "huh", who are you, she then again replied "knsa ni c (my bf's name) or me (my name), i told her its me then she starts saying bad words to me. sa akong kalagot kay ako g.adto akong bf sa ilahang blay den ako g.confront. then niangkon cya na september pa daw cla nagka uyab. ako sad, pwerte nkong hilak kay sakit kau jud sa akong buot na gbuhatan ko ug ingon ana den buntis pa jud ko. ako gpapili akong bf kung knsa namo 2 ang iya pilion, ako ug ang bby or ang iyang new gf. ang tubag kay mas luv na daw nya iyang new gf kaysa nko. grabe jud, mura ko makuyapan sa kasakit sa akong gbati atong adlawa. pag uli nko sa amua, ntxt cya nko ug nangayo ug sorry. sa akong kalagot na pud, nkareply ko ug mga sakit sad na pulong nya.

pagka lunes ana, may 11, niadto na sad ko sa ilaha sayo kau mga 7.30am pa. ako gdala tnan nya mga gpanghatag nko even among albums. nagtalk na pud mi den this time nangayo cya ug sorry personally, ako cge ra ghapon ko ug hilak jud. he said na maybe wla lng cya sa tarong nya hunahuna pag sunday na niingon cya na mas luv nya ang iyang uyab kaysa nko ug sa baby. so, pag uli nko sa blay nag txt2 na pud mi den mura na ug nahusay gmay.

pagka tuesday May 12, while nag browse ko sa iya friendster, ako gtan aw ang friendster profile atong girl kay friends man cla, ug na shock na pud ko kay naa didto ang mga picture nlang duha sa friendster sa girl. lagot na pud kau ko so ako na pud g.confront akong bf. ako cya g.ingnan nga wla jud cla at least kaikog man lng nko na gbandera pa jud nla ilang mga pics sa friendster. sa akong kalagot kay gsendan nko ug email ang girl akong g.away. by the way ang girl kay wla na dri, naa na sa dubai pag december daw nlarga. nag sorry na sad cya nko den nangayo cya ug time pra mag think, ako g.ingnan na wla nay time kay makigbuwag na jud ko, sobra na jud. sugot cya na magbuwag mi pro dli cya mosugot mawagtangan ug ryt sa baby. ako man cya g.ingnan nga dli jud nko cya pakit on sa bata.

krn, wednesday, may 13. nireply ang girl sa akong email. ako pa ang g.away, g.ingnan ko na salin ra daw ko!! lagot na pud kau ko so ako na pud greplyan ang email sa girl ako pud g.away. g.ingnan ko nya nga dli ko maghabol nla duha kay wla na daw love ang akong ex nko. as in, the nerve!! cya pa ang nangaway nko. grabe na jud kau ang kasakit na akong gbati krn. kapoy na pud ko cge ug hilak.

ako pangutana is until wen man ko maghilak??

maghilak ka hantod mapulan ka. inig ka pulan nimo maka huna2x nakag tarong. inig ka huna2x nmo og tarong its either ayuson ninyo inyo relationship or mangita kag lain or mag concentrate ka sa imo anak.

[shopaholictrends]

sakit jd nah sis.

cz acu, 2 mons pregnant cu ngbuwag nmi sah akng soon 2 b husband for a diff reason sah imu..

@ first, sakit jd kau sis,, pru later on mka realize rka nga sak2 pd imu dcision nah mgbuwag mu
cz f padaun pa jpun mu but still cla pah sah kabit, sakit2 lng ca

always remember sis, IT'S HIS LOSS NOT URS
ky d jd xa kta sah iya liwat..
yaw jd nah ipakta nia sis ky sala rsad btw nah nia,
pra matagam pd xa!

how sad! mka relate cu nmu sis..

[luke0917]

sakit jd nah sis.

cz acu, 2 mons pregnant cu ngbuwag nmi sah akng soon 2 b husband for a diff reason sah imu..

@ first, sakit jd kau sis,, pru later on mka realize rka nga sak2 pd imu dcision nah mgbuwag mu
cz f padaun pa jpun mu but still cla pah sah kabit, sakit2 lng ca

always remember sis, IT'S HIS LOSS NOT URS
ky d jd xa kta sah iya liwat..
yaw jd nah ipakta nia sis ky sala rsad btw nah nia,
pra matagam pd xa!

how sad! mka relate cu nmu sis..

yap, sakit jud kau iyang gbuhat pro mao lge, mas better na magbuwag mi kaysa mu hold on ghapon ko.

sakto jud ka sis, maglaway ra nya ni cya sa among anak pohon, hahahahaha.

[Talkative101]

ara naka mo hunong kung maka realize naka... like something nga dli na siya angay hilakan... if you want to stop crying think of the baby naa nimo karon.. think unsa imo ma hatag nga ma ayo nga future para niya kay sooner or later ma divert na ang imong attention sa imong bata dli na sa lalaki nga nag pa sakit nimo.. (char.com) lelz.. heheheh

bitaw sakita sad sa gi buhat sa imong x oi..dli mana ma ayo.... tsk tsk tsk

[luke0917]

mag 2 weeks nah since nagbuwag mi....

hahay,,,moving on lng ghapon ko tawn..

[luke0917]

as of now, i can say that i am still not ok, but in time i will be. promise na nko sa akong self!