Questions about Love and Relationships?

[alexxx]

why do i fnd it so hard to open my heart?? i mean, i want to be loved too but there is alwys something holding me back..if naa na gani mu abot, nag one step backward nko...i dont understnd..


one of the most common reason for such reaction is something that involves your past. it could be that you have opened your heart before but it was just mishandled and disrespected. vulnerable hearts when hurt even just once takes a long time to heal and most of the time it requires true love as its medicine. in other words, if your heart is broken by love, it can only be fixed by love itself. trust is just too risky to take but it is the only way. nothing is for sure though but trying is necessary. you can never move on unless you are ready and willing to make the first step even if your feet still hurts. just consider that everybody is unique and no love is the same. maybe this time get to know your self more and deeper so you can have your own definition of love. you know what love is by yourself instead of believing what other people set for you

[ierolennail]

why do i fnd it so hard to open my heart?? i mean, i want to be loved too but there is alwys something holding me back..if naa na gani mu abot, nag one step backward nko...i dont understnd..


one of the most common reason for such reaction is something that involves your past. it could be that you have opened your heart before but it was just mishandled and disrespected. vulnerable hearts when hurt even just once takes a long time to heal and most of the time it requires true love as its medicine. in other words, if your heart is broken by love, it can only be fixed by love itself. trust is just too risky to take but it is the only way. nothing is for sure though but trying is necessary. you can never move on unless you are ready and willing to make the first step even if your feet still hurts. just consider that everybody is unique and no love is the same. maybe this time get to know your self more and deeper so you can have your own definition of love. you know what love is by yourself instead of believing what other people set for you

yea,its true i was hurt badly but i was silent about it...i knw my capabilities if i love some1..but im just scared na basin unsa nsd ni...evrytime i open my heart,give them the chance,they just broke it..i dont trust people easily but now,mas nisamot...bsan unsa pa sila ka sincere,maglisod kog believe...i alwys luk for sumthing beneath those features...usahay mamahala nlng ko how long it will take bt i knw its not gud either...bt wat can i do??

[alexxx]

allow love to grow within you instead of labeling your feelings with love. i personally believe that getting to know someone and if he is sincere with you requires time. consider the consistency of someone through time at least 8 months. once again, don't label the feelings as love. allow things to come as it is. if the guy i sbeing freindly then be a friend. maybe you just look for real love too hard. let it come as it is and you'll know it when it's there, trust time and try not to be desperate

[alexxx]

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[nitesky]

OT: i havent said thank you to you yet.....

THANK YOU SO MUCH... ^_^

[alexxx]

you're welcome

[YM24]

kanus-a kaha cya ma ako??

[alexxx]

only that person can answer

[alexxx]

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