HELP My best friend wants to be my boyfriend but I don't love him that way

[the Messenger]

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Best friend or beast friend?

You can easily cut ties with the person, you know. You're not obligated to stick around. He seems like an opportunist than a friend to me.

[Micasa101]

I did that once..
pero he keeps on doing it again and again..
gprangkahan nako but.. iyahang himuon kay mu GARA!

Cguro il try to get mad at him..
pra maka intindi sad sya ba..
kapoy au ng makarcv ug txt niya nya puro "boo,beh," mga ana!
ambot nlng ..>.< irritatiiingg!

One time jud kad2ng ..
gi tudloan ko ug activate ug account.. he put my name as an example then his "LAST NAME!!" in it.
No comment nalang ko..
amf!

[khat_fesh]

pa imprinta og t-shirt day..nagpatik og

front print - "My Friend is Pretending that he is my boyfriend"
back print - "His with me right now"

[the Messenger]

I bet lingaw kaayo imong "beast" friend sa imong reaction.

Ayaw ra gud tagda. Ayawg reply sa iyang text. Ayaw storyahi. Ayaw kuyog. Ilabay imong SIM then if mu-adto sa inyo, ayaw pasudla. If mag talk mo, singhagi. Ayaw tabangi. Unleash the BEAST in you.

I don't think you're doing much to get your point across that you're annoyed with him. Good luck.

[mich_pink03]

bestfriend dli nman cguro nah matawag ug bestfriend nah nimu xa ky giabuso nman ka nya pag.au... kng dli madala ug storya, hala ayaw nah tagda forever..

[daMiro ronaB]

hello,

Getting rid of him will make him do more of those acts.
Alot of friends of mine, i know nga ing-ana ang situation, and end up nga nag-kauyab ra ghapon sila.

So you have to do the opposite way, be friend him. And likayi ang mkapa do ka ug favor niya
diha mana mag sugod ang kaikog and also utang kabubut-on.

and above all ignore everything he does..

[munkyboi]

What if ur bestfriend is being persistent and abusive sa imo..
nya you already told him"you don't like him"..
then he already told evryone naa mo relationship and all that even though wala and that someone is calling you name of endearment nga wa ka kasabot presko ra kaayo!! grrhh..!!

wouldn't you just want to slap and stab that guy!?..
pero.. his a friend right? You wouldn't try to hurt him..
what would you do to make him "understand"?!

katong time nga nang harass siya nimo...mao sad tong time na gi undang niya ang iyang friendship nimo!
friends dont act like that!... and basig friends2x ra daw as a stepping stone for somthing sis.... if i were your frind.... dile jud to nako mabuhat... once is enough.. if balibaran ko....

[handsoff241]

is that a best friend in the first place
sounds more like an untrained dog to me

stop popping on the floor! and poops in your feet,,, such a douche, a bag of douche!

[cptn_star]

IGNORE IGNORE IGNORE...ana lang...bahala nag unsa pa na iya buhaton dha..

[diem]

Yours is a delicate matter pero I think there's a simple process that I think can solve your problem with your best friend whose in error.

First, I'd like to suggest that you shouldn't take him, his actions and his words too seriously. I know you might be feeling frustrated right now by his foolishness but you shouldn't be stressed or harassed, though you have every right to be. Just treat him like a child with a huge crush on you and laugh it away. That way hopefully he would take the hint and still he could save face and act like everything's just a prank.

Entertain other suitors or dates, and tell him about it frankly. If he makes an issue about it, again just treat him like a spoiled child with a disillusioned view and set things straight. Get your family and real friends to support you, you don't have to handle him alone.

If he still persists in his style of wooing you, then I guess you follow what everyone's telling you in this thread--just disregard him. I'm sure you have a life worth living, why spoil it on his account? So just get busy and don't feel too obligated to answer his text or calls immediately, just be consistent in your replies and politely tell him straight off that you got more important things to do with your time than spend it with him.

All in all, just don't be bothered by him. Be strong, show strength of character, a bully is only a cover for weakness.

I pray all the best for you in dealing with this problematic person.