Same-s*x relationships

[laagan_si_organizer]

Again, misleading...believing its all about choices...however there is this "destiny"...contradicting.

i believe it's not contradicting at all...knowing that the choices you make are part of your so-called destiny.

well there are also men who make the choice not to be homosexuals...because they believe in something...

speaking about coming out in the open or remain hidden...means accepting that a person can not control his being...his life...and that he is a homo...nothing more to change...that's it...

accepting the fact, and the truth about himself is already controlling of his being. it's not a question, but when you say...

on the other hand, if a person can control himself...if he can dictate himself...he can be firm and chose not to be a homo...

...is pretending to be someone against your will just because most "people" in the society (who are definitely narrow-minded) despise the thought of it!

[laagan_si_organizer]

I think everyone deserves the same happiness. It's companionship that they want to share. What's wrong with that as long as they abide with the laws. 5 states in US accepts gay marriages.

right..and a few more are working on it...but let's not focus on that alone. the point here is... if one can't pay a little damn R-E-S-P-E-C-T for homo relationships, then why ask for one? i've been stressing this point several times already, and again - it all boils down to that seven letter word...RESPECT!

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I have posted this before and I'll post it again:

In the old testament:
This is what God intended it to be - Genesis 2:24-25 says, “Therefore shall a man leave his father and his mother, and shall cleave unto his wife: and they shall be one flesh. And they were both naked, the man and his wife, and were not ashamed.” Hebrew 13:4 says, “Marriage is honorable in all, and the bed undefiled: but whoremongers and adulterers God will judge.”

Jude 7 indicates that Sodom and Gomorrah’s punishment was due to their sexual perversion. As further evidence of the sinful nature of homosexuality, Leviticus 18:22, and 20:13 both describe homosexuality as “an abomination.

In the new testament:
In Romans 1:26-27 Paul is very specific, “For this cause God gave them up unto vile affections: for even their women did change the natural use into that which is against nature: And likewise also the men, leaving the natural use of the woman, burned in their lust one toward another; men with men working that which is unseemly, and receiving in themselves that recompense of their error which was meet.”

(Here is another transalation of the same verse by the New International Version Bible Romans 1:26-27) 26Because of this, God gave them over to shameful lusts. Even their women exchanged natural relations for unnatural ones. 27In the same way the men also abandoned natural relations with women and were inflamed with lust for one another. Men committed indecent acts with other men, and received in themselves the due penalty for their perversion.

In 1 Corinthians 6:9, Paul wrote, “Know ye not that the unrighteous shall not inherit the kingdom of God? Be not deceived: neither fornicators, nor idolaters, nor adulterers, nor effeminate, nor abusers of themselves with mankind.”

The Greek word from which the King James Bible gets the word “effeminate” is malakos, which literally means something soft to the touch, but is used as a negative metaphor to refer to a boy kept for homosexual relations with a man. The “abusers of themselves with mankind” are those men who engage in unnatural sexual relations with other men – homosexuals. That is also how the NASB, the NKJV, and the NIV translate that verse. Also in the New Testament is verse 7 from the book of Jude, defining exactly why Sodom and Gomorrah were punished – homosexuality.

If you consider yourself a real christian the primary purpose of your life is to love God with all your heart, mind, and soul. God never said living a christian life is easy. On the contrary he actually said the opposite. When you become a christian you do not follow your own deceitful heart and indulge in selfish desires anymore but follow God's heart. If he says homosexuality is a sin then you must follow him and not do it. God actually wants you to be like him and do anything according to his will. The Bible are for those who heed his call. So if you call yourself a child of God take his word to heart and follow him. For those, who do not believe and follow the christian God the bible does not apply to you, God will never force you to love and follow him and his commands. Its as simple as that really.

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...is pretending to be someone against your will just because most "people" in the society (who are definitely narrow-minded) despise the thought of it!

not just "people"...but someone up above....will not be pleased...


btw, i don't think its "pretending"....when you struggle not to be a homo...is it already pretending?

---much like a person who struggles to be rich...is he pretending? because he had no choice anymore but to be poor...live as a poor?

---much like a person who struggles to be good...is he pretending? because he had no choice anymore but to be sinner...live as a sinner?

---much like a person who struggles not to steal...is he pretending? because he had no choice anymore...he'll be a thief all his life?

[seven_segment]

On the contrary he actually said the opposite. When you become a christian you do not follow your own deceitful heart and indulge in selfish desires anymore but follow God's heart.

tumpak! and that is what I've been trying to say...not just for a "homo" but to each and everyone...those who are controlled by drugs anymore...lustful acts...those who depends on money..those who are addicted to something...etc...etc...

[arreane09]

just be yourself..hehe

[KASAAC]

Just do what you love, don't explain yourself to others...they have nothing to do with your life....

[I am the bo$$]

Don't make it as an alibi nga mu prefer ka sa tomboy ky mas maayo mu gugma ug lalake unya mahatag nya tanan sa inyo?

Don't sour grape oi... Obvious kaayo. Dli mailad tanan tawo ninyo...

Ingna jud nga didto na lang ka mantinil ug tomboy ky walay lalake mu punit nimo ug sa imong batasan...

Klaro man sad niay topak ang uban baye sa pangisip. Nganu gud tawn mantinil na lang ug tomboy.

Sure mo nga fulfilled mo sa inyong pagka babaye? Are you fulfilling your obligations as a woman? Or are you fooling yourself? If I know you cry yourself in some nights thinking how your life has spiraled down.

The strongest of women pick their selves up and dust off the bad memories of a past relationship then they move on with their lives! AND THEY WON'T SETTLE FOR ANYTHING LESS!

Mao na type nga babaye nga angay pangga-on ug lalake!

Kaboang na lang kha noh kung tanan lalake nag duwa2x ra ug mga babaye? Naabot man gali akong ginikanan ug 33 years of marriage and they still go on dates and are intimate with each other. No relationship is perfect but at least you try your best to make it perfect for you and your mate's sake. It's a two-way partnership!

And I want to have a wife like that someday and I would treat her like a queen. Dili pareha anang mga psychologically imbalanced women nga mupatol ug tomboy!

Nothing is more rewarding than having normal, healthy and fulfilling relationship that is accepted and respected by society!

If makakita na cla ug mag uyab nga sweet kaayo, they would be eating their hearts out in envy...

Ma accept sa imong family? C'mon! Sure ka?

Don't bulls*** the bull s***ter!

Very Well Said......Two thumbs up to you Pornstar!!!!

[bblang]

To each his own, but I prefer the man-woman relationship.

[laagan_si_organizer]

I have posted this before and I'll post it again:

In the old testament:
This is what God intended it to be - Genesis 2:24-25 says, “Therefore shall a man leave his father and his mother, and shall cleave unto his wife: and they shall be one flesh. And they were both naked, the man and his wife, and were not ashamed.” Hebrew 13:4 says, “Marriage is honorable in all, and the bed undefiled: but whoremongers and adulterers God will judge.”

Jude 7 indicates that Sodom and Gomorrah’s punishment was due to their sexual perversion. As further evidence of the sinful nature of homosexuality, Leviticus 18:22, and 20:13 both describe homosexuality as “an abomination.

In the new testament:
In Romans 1:26-27 Paul is very specific, “For this cause God gave them up unto vile affections: for even their women did change the natural use into that which is against nature: And likewise also the men, leaving the natural use of the woman, burned in their lust one toward another; men with men working that which is unseemly, and receiving in themselves that recompense of their error which was meet.”

(Here is another transalation of the same verse by the New International Version Bible Romans 1:26-27) 26Because of this, God gave them over to shameful lusts. Even their women exchanged natural relations for unnatural ones. 27In the same way the men also abandoned natural relations with women and were inflamed with lust for one another. Men committed indecent acts with other men, and received in themselves the due penalty for their perversion.

In 1 Corinthians 6:9, Paul wrote, “Know ye not that the unrighteous shall not inherit the kingdom of God? Be not deceived: neither fornicators, nor idolaters, nor adulterers, nor effeminate, nor abusers of themselves with mankind.”

The Greek word from which the King James Bible gets the word “effeminate” is malakos, which literally means something soft to the touch, but is used as a negative metaphor to refer to a boy kept for homosexual relations with a man. The “abusers of themselves with mankind” are those men who engage in unnatural sexual relations with other men – homosexuals. That is also how the NASB, the NKJV, and the NIV translate that verse. Also in the New Testament is verse 7 from the book of Jude, defining exactly why Sodom and Gomorrah were punished – homosexuality.

If you consider yourself a real christian the primary purpose of your life is to love God with all your heart, mind, and soul. God never said living a christian life is easy. On the contrary he actually said the opposite. When you become a christian you do not follow your own deceitful heart and indulge in selfish desires anymore but follow God's heart. If he says homosexuality is a sin then you must follow him and not do it. God actually wants you to be like him and do anything according to his will. The Bible are for those who heed his call. So if you call yourself a child of God take his word to heart and follow him. For those, who do not believe and follow the christian God the bible does not apply to you, God will never force you to love and follow him and his commands. Its as simple as that really.

it has been undeniably a sad fact that when people talk about these kinds of issues, other people would always 'tag' the bible into it... for the very obvious reason that it would "somehow" shut people's mouth, the fact that one would be condemned if they don't go parallel with what was written in the bible.

years ago, i attended this religious seminar which was more about spiritual life, self-proclamation, and self-awareness. by that time, i was already aware of my orientation. i remembered one of our seminarians/preachers told us..."God will always love us for who we are, regardless of the decisions we make.."

it somehow enlightened to where i should take myself... noting the word "always". i've never felt guilty following what my heart says.

just because we DON'T TOTALLY GO PARALLEL with the bible doesn't give "other" people the license to condemn us more than they condemn the al qaeda for terrorism and other country leaders for corruption.

this made me realize that the same seminarian's quote was somewhat true..."if people would judge other people for what they see, and believe in it...then they are no other but sinners as well... for no one should judge what they see in their naked eyes... they should judge for what they "REALLY" feel in their hearts, much as how God judged HIS people!"