Living with your parents in law

[winnie]

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para nko dli woi,,

[ritchepaul]

Parents may be sensitive sa needs sa ilang anak and I can tell pud kay father man pud ko, duna ko anak.

However, there are parents out there...labi na nga adults na ilang mga anak...they still treat them like kids.
How would they grow up?? Unsaon man nila pag-mature kung ang treatment mura lang gihapon ug bata?

On this certain circumstances, if our children (labi na kung adult na sila and at the right age to marry) encounter these problems...we should not choke them by being overly protective.

We as parents feel the urge to protect and to care (and this is natural) but we should NOT overlook their inner needs like ilang mga emotions.

Parents should adjust accordingly to their children as well in order to achieve harmony.

Even though nga wala na sa atong puder ang mga anak, we are always accountable for their outcome...kung giunsa nato sila gipadako tong bata pa sila.

[b3ndz]

i agree with the in-laws/out-laws bit. depends on your budget and how much of the flak you're willing to take.

[ritchepaul]

i agree with the in-laws/out-laws bit. depends on your budget and how much of the flak you're willing to take.

Yeah, it's quite true pud kay kung wala na gani ka money...init na dayon ang ulo sa mga inlaws sa imo then they start being a true faultfinder. Daghan na sila yawyaw sa imoha left and right, complaining on every bit of little mistakes you make.

Though I'm not saying that all inlaws are like this, most of them tend to transform into THESE behaviors when money is involved.

[johnrho]

mas maau kung manita og balay na kamo ra para walay hasol...
naa man mga balay na rent to own...
mao ni na expirience sa akong wife mao ako nlang ni kuha og balay para walay samok...

[sUnDoLp]

ako karon wala man problema living w/ my in laws. ok man ilang pagtagad nako, pero ganahan na jud ko mamalhin mi. nagtigum pa lang mi ron. nindot na imong idea bro dah na rent to own. lisod pod kaau ipangita ana dri sa syudad cguro. for sure sa lagyo nana..

[YM24]

sympre nindot gud nga mag lain mo para wlay daghan saba..bati biya na sige lng salig sa parent nindot gud nang mapakita nmu naa kay ekabuga!!..

[angelcreu]

WISH WE CUD HAVE OUR OWN IN THE RYT TIME.......money ra jud kuwang...and self-confidence!

[ishboy]

live with in laws? di ko, bisan pag libre tanan.

[Princess Padme]

mas nindot kung maglahi kay makat-on mo sa responsibility sa balay ug mas enjoy bya murag naduwa lang mo bahay-bahayan. sweet... and wala manghilabot ninyo especially if naa namo bata, dili sila manghilabot sa pagpapalaki ninyo sa anak ninyo, dba?