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[winnie]

soul doc
if dugay namo wala nagkita sa imong x husband.unsay imong bation inig kita ninyu,,help

[lovely_chic]

soul doc,

there was one time nga ako gi-ask ako bf nga why is it di kau ka showy sa imo love for me and i even told him na because of dat sahay ma feel na lang nako nga murag la ko bf and so he answered me by saying nga it's part of his defense mechanism daw coz if he will not do dat daw maglisod kuno sya coz lagyo man mi sa usa't usa.... Naa jud diay ing ana soul doc? kindly clarify me on this...thanks

[Soul Doctor]

Doc, sa manag-asawa, unsa man sa imong tanaw nga valid reason why mag-buwag?

Dili man gud ko mu buy anang irreconcilable differences or infidelity lang ang rason.

Depende gihapon ang tubag ani. hehehe.

Depende sa values sa matag usa sa partners.
It could be any reasons.
Uban magbuwag tungod sa kwarta,
uban tungod sa pakialamerong in-laws.
Uban magbuwag kay dili satisfied sa ilang sexlife.
Ako ang pangutan-on.
Magbuwag ang mag-asawa kung wala nay respect sa usag-usa.

[Soul Doctor]

soul doc
if dugay namo wala nagkita sa imong x husband.unsay imong bation inig kita ninyu,,help

Wala ko kahibaw. wala man koy ex-huSBaND, JOKE.

Depende ni sa inyong emotional bank accounts.
Kung pagbuwag ninyo,
maayo ug daghan mog gishare nga happy moments
then maayo ang result kung magkita mo pagusab.

Kung away gani ang inyong pirmi gibuhat sa una,
dili na lang ka magexpect og maayo nga resulta kung magkita mog usab.

Kay ang mga negative emotions last longer than the positive ones.

[Soul Doctor]

soul doc,

there was one time nga ako gi-ask ako bf nga why is it di kau ka showy sa imo love for me and i even told him na because of dat sahay ma feel na lang nako nga murag la ko bf and so he answered me by saying nga it's part of his defense mechanism daw coz if he will not do dat daw maglisod kuno sya coz lagyo man mi sa usa't usa.... Naa jud diay ing ana soul doc? kindly clarify me on this...thanks

Could be true.
Some people mostly Chinese or rich people are less expressive as the others.
No offense intended.

And they sometimes come up with this excuse.
But its just an excuse.
The truth is they are just not comfortable with it.
They are not used to it,
because they came from a family
where they do not show their love as expressively as the others.

Sometimes they see it as weakness.
If they are expressive they think that you will abuse their love in the future.
And you become spoiled and use it to blackmail them emotionally.
Example.
Love kaayo ko nimo? Wala lagi ko nimo palitig bag-ong cellphone!

And some are worrier that they don't want to miss you so much
so they don't want to be so close with you.
But I think it is wrong.

As long as you are alive,
you should be expressive of your feelings no matter what the consequence are.
So that in the end there will be no regrets.

[handsoff241]

Doc naa diay kay branch diri sa relationships section
lol

[Soul Doctor]

Doc naa diay kay branch diri sa relationships section
lol

Spin off ni siya bro.
Next to spirituality, relationships is the next important thing in life.
I made it my mission to help other people using this thread.
At least, in my own little ways.

[Soul Doctor]

Doc, sa manag-asawa, unsa man sa imong tanaw nga valid reason why mag-buwag?

Dili man gud ko mu buy anang irreconcilable differences or infidelity lang ang rason.

Any reason man valid para magbuwag.
Bisan bahog baba imong husband pwede na irason para magbuwag.
Bisan ang kakusog mohagok pwede nang rason para magbuwag.

But all of these are just excuses.

[Soul Doctor]

Marriage is about compromise.

It a constant and never ending negotiation.

You only find excuses if one wants to negotiate with someone else.

[NASYO]

What is the name of the bond that binds and tie up couples?