
Originally Posted by
Soul Doctor
you are obviously having a relationship with an emotionally-immature person.
It may take a while for him to grow up.
I used to be that way.
I grow up where parents almost did not care for us and how we feel.
But after experiencing the ups and downs of being married, I finally grew up emotionally.
I bet he just can not cope with any form of conflict.
He may still be nurturing a childhood pain.
Probably one of his parent left them.
or he has an abusive older brother or older sister.
When you get into a fight, and when you give him pain,
it will all be mixed with the previous pains he was carrying with him for a long time.