E'x GF still communicates with you...

[gkoopir]

I just want to get views from all of you about my situation with my e’x gf, we are no longer communicating for years and she just recently txting me and calling me every day now, it started when she saw my picture of me with my current GF at friendster, she txted me if she’s happy that I have already a girlfriend and my girlfriend is pretty. She always text me asking how am I and what im doing and always ask about my girlfriend and even asked me to call her and talk to her thinking she already have a bf as well. basically I am not affected which what my e’x is acting now but I am just being careful with what she’s maybe into on contacting me. Please share your thoughts.

Basin wla pa siya ka get over and basin ganahan lng jud siya makig friend nimo..
Hatag lang gamay nga distansya kay basin mag-away mo sa imong present GF ana.
Its ok to talk to her but set a boundary sa inyong panag istoryahay. Pagkat-on og cut off kong lahi na iyang tone.
Likay lng pud sa paghang-out niya nga kamo lng duha.. Likayi pud nga magstorya mo sa past.

[marsshan]

suya tngali xa imo new gf ky iya new bf batig nawng hahahaha

[azland]

pre if she is being friendly with you then why not,. but put a line between the two of you you'll never know what will happen... mas maayong molikai nlang ka.

[chad_tukes]

ok ra na.... maybe she's just making friends..... nakig amiga rana nimo..... amigaha lang gud..... just wants to connect.... blah blah blah...... etc... etc... etc....

i call BS on it.

you guys know why? because the TS and his supposedly "EX" girlfriend are now both committed to each other's partners. i don't understand why communicating with an EX is perfectly okay. no it's not. once it's over, it's over. you might as well get back to that EX gf of yours if you still wanna continue flirting with her or talk about things over a cup of joe.

get the drift?

thanks.

[unspeakabLe]

just wanted to share my opinion as well

am a girl and i think kahibaw ko unsay motive ana imo X. [i'm not concluding nga mao jud ni reason but maybe]

t'was quite a long time nga wala namo nag-communicate..tapos out of nowhere nikalit lang xa ug sulpot karon calling you..texting you..etc. and you've mentioned nga she saw your pix with your current girlfriend on friendster.

you know what bro she's just threatened. of course wala namo and of course nisugot xa nga buwag namo pero on the other side sa iya brain murag [urrghh i can't find the exact words to say..tsk] NALAIN [cguro mao ni ang sakto nga term] xa nga in the long run nailisan jud xa. GIRLS do compare theirselves. in her case naka-compare jud xa sa iya self sa imo current karon.. and maybe mao ni-contact napud na xa karon kay he's trying to distract you sa inyo relationship or maybe naka-realize siya nga mas pretty pa imo current kaysa niya..something like that. Even though she's in a relationship right now we can't conclude nga naka-get-over na siya nimo.. naa mo past..naa mo naagi-an.. it might be nga kana iyaha karon kay pangpawala lang sa mingaw. Know what it's not normal kung in-ana ang lihok sa girl.. mau unta paghuman ug kita niya nikontak xa nimo nga "hey naa nakay GF..wow congrats" pero in-ana nga PIRMI na motxt or tawag and then magpatawag pa jud? Hmmmm.something's fishy's going on with her.

MY SUGGESTION: the way i view you situation it's not healthy nga patulan nimo imo ex. im not telling you to be mean..just so makalikay ug gubot sa imo present GF karon..kay kung kana baya topic nga nagkontak2 ang EX mao jud na hot topic kaau para sa mga current GFs.. kay kung ako lang current GF nimo of course di ko mosugot magcommunicate pa mo..there's no reason at all nga inyo pa na buhaton..mind you, your ex will be a threat sa inyo relationship. if padayunon pa na nimo goodluck nalang, guba jud mo ana. better palayo na samtang sayo pa. enjoy sa imo life with yor present GF and imo EX?she's a part of your past which is diLi na angay balikan or dili na angay i-brought-up nang topica.so ako pa nimo, ayaw nana tagda imong EX..she's just triggering a fight between u and ur gf.

*goodluck bro..

[killercity]

Well, it's ok raman bha. Basta wala lang extra na Activities with your Ex. Ok ra na.

[Sol_Itaire]

ok ra na.... maybe she's just making friends..... nakig amiga rana nimo..... amigaha lang gud..... just wants to connect.... blah blah blah...... etc... etc... etc....

i call BS on it.

you guys know why? because the TS and his supposedly "EX" girlfriend are now both committed to each other's partners. i don't understand why communicating with an EX is perfectly okay. no it's not. once it's over, it's over. you might as well get back to that EX gf of yours if you still wanna continue flirting with her or talk about things over a cup of joe.

get the drift?

thanks.

so you are not friends with ANY of your ex's, chad? i think that's rather sad.

guys, if you just know how to set boundaries, then talking to an ex should not be a problem. and this is not constant talking, like sige text/call/email, nope it's not like that. it's just pangumusta, what's the problem with that? especially kung okay ang parting/breakup then wala juy problema di ba?

oh well, if not talking to an ex EVER is how you set boundaries, then inyu sad na.

[unspeakabLe]

ok ra panagsa nga pangumusta or hi hello.. pero ayaw nang CONSTANT nga commu ui.. like what she wanted you to do nga patawagon ka niya..for what naa lang jud na xa lain motive.. if i know

[chad_tukes]

so you are not friends with ANY of your ex's, chad? i think that's rather sad.

guys, if you just know how to set boundaries, then talking to an ex should not be a problem. and this is not constant talking, like sige text/call/email, nope it's not like that. it's just pangumusta, what's the problem with that? especially kung okay ang parting/breakup then wala juy problema di ba?

oh well, if not talking to an ex EVER is how you set boundaries, then inyu sad na.

no i don't... and i don't think that's SAD at all. i'm happy that way. i have no interest in them anymore so why talk to them still?