Questions about Love and Relationships?

[alexxx]

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[alexxx]

just a thought:

we often think that love is a feeling that resulted from an attraction to a particular person who has the qualities we look for that would make ourselves better. depending on what you usually lack, the other person fills it up for you having the idea of making your life complete.

what we usually not aware of is that most of the time it is our own mind who makes the script. in other words, our mind is the one making us believe that the other person has the qualities that what we look for. thus making as blinded about the reality. this causes too much pain and it happens mostly to guys.

until now i find love as a mystery still. so much to discover and to learn and only the immortals knows everything about it. for me, love is about showing what you feel for the person regardless of how that person make you feel

[blackbutterfly74]

does love really fades??

[mik0y]

Professional answer?

Are you a psychologist or a counselor?

[public7enemy]

ngano man kung mag tinarong ka sa girl na imong panguyaban bati man kaau ang resulta.. pero kung binuang ra, maayo kaau labas? ing-ana jud diay na?

[mik0y]

@Public7enemy: It is because you're being "Wussy" when you're serious...And when you're just playing around, you act ATTRACTIVELY.

However, I'm not saying na you have to be a jerk to be attractive.

Naa lang juy components sa mga jerks and losers mao ng attractive sila...And you have to understand that..Para kung magtinarong ka, you can use it to your advantage.

[alexxx]

does love really fades??


personally, no...
i don't believe that love fades but it can be replaced, forgotten or just simply hide it. the moment you see that person again, automatically memories flashback and the feelings you had suddenly appeared and makes you still. it is an emotion/energy that has been a part of you and will always be part of you forever. if things between you is not really good then you just simply convert love to anger, try to forget it and forget all the things that happened or let the unconscious hide it but then again it will come back sooner or later. it can even affect you in some ways that you may not be conscious of. the only thing you can do instead of killing the feeling is to use it t your personal growth. learn from the experience and start moving from there...

[alexxx]

ngano man kung mag tinarong ka sa girl na imong panguyaban bati man kaau ang resulta.. pero kung binuang ra, maayo kaau labas? ing-ana jud diay na?



most of the times when you really want something so much you would do anything even everything just to get it. it is human nature to be an achiever or a conqueror. in situations like relationships when you wanted someone so much, you have the tendency to put all your focus and attention of having her. too much of the desire will make you loose yourself. you are no longer as you are but as someone she likes. when this happens you start to pretend and become the best of everything just to get her attention but girls see this as a total fake. girls just want something real. now, when you are not so serious about the girl, you are just simply being you. not afraid of anything not even loosing because you have nothing to loose. girls see the true you even if you are not perfect, but being true to your self and not afraid to show it is perfect enough for her.

bottom line is, just be you... that's all she needs

[alexxx]

Professional answer?

Are you a psychologist or a counselor?


i have a degree in psychology

[alexxx]

dont hesitate to ask