Would you look at your GF' or BF's cellphone/email/organizer?

[ace_maranga]

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weeeeeee. ako GF ay, ana xa nga mag play xa sa phone nako. pero sa tinuoray mangukay d.i to. i don't mind ra sad. i don't have skeletons in my closet mn sad.

[gkoopir]

ako kay mo basa ko panagsa pero kana lng maatlan nako na naa ni txt nya wala niya gibasa, i'll read it for her.. kana ra jung naa siya. di jud to the extent nga basahon kuni,og ang uban pang message basin naa nya ni sya'y lain..
Usahay kong ma ganahan ko mo tan.aw sa iyang mga picture sa computer kay mananghid jud ko, kong dili siya kay dili sad ko..
Usahay kay mo ask man siya about unsa ako password sa emails and social networking nga sites kay ako man siya pangutan.on ngano.. but i will really give it to her if she really likes to.. wla man ko gitago.

[mich_pink03]

i would never do that...i respect his privacy...if i would do that it will only result to an argument and worst would be break up for just a shallow reason...doing that would only mean that you don't trust your partner...

samehere ate.. hehe..

[timoel]

depende na sya sa sabot ninyo at first.. kinahanglan naa jud agreement.. kami duha sako gf we both have access and any accounts we have.. maski gani pin number samo atm we know.. it also measures how you trust ur partner para imo sya pagkatiwalaan sa imo mga private accounts.. ma measure sab imo honesty ngadto niya.. its a nice feeling man gud na everytime molantaw sya saq email, friendster or even YM archives nko kung madala nako laptop sa ilaha., nice ang feeling nga wala ka hesitation kay u know in your self na wala ka getago.. mura pod ka proud sa imo self... samo nga case, we treat each other as viruses but on the other hand kami ra sab ang antivirus sa usag usa.. wla man perpekto, usahay molikoy jud ka, ang importante lang everytime maka comit ka such mo admit jud ka ug willing ka mag ask forgiveness tapos willing ka to take the lesson of the consequences sa imo nahimo...

love you kau langga... you are my life...

[timoel]

one thing pa jud diay.. for both parties nga naga open sa personal account sa ila partner.. kung naa gani ta makita nga something nga dapat ug confirmation sa ato partner, ato lang unta tarungon ug ask.. diri man gud magsugod ang away sa manner of asking.. sometimes we throw questions as if we already know the answer.. then we much consider also the dates.. sometimes man gud na scan na nimo before pero wala lang ma erase then here comes nag scan ka utro tapos nakita nimo balik, moulbo daun ato kaspa sa pagtoo nga lain na sab but in fact humana na unta ni nga issue.. the point is dili magpadalos dalos kung unsa man ang nakita.. kay ang mahitabo mag away lang sa walay henungdan... diha na daun nato mahuna huna nga natuok nata sato partner kung ang kasuko mag gikan sa irrelevant reasons...

[cp103]

i have to admit to this i did this once pero sakit man diay noh na u would know in the long run na daghan na diay cya g kabuangan and wala lang ka kay trust kaau ka..until ni tan-aw ka sa iya phone and there it is...text messages sa girl..

is it really about trust? or you just want to see whats really in his/head?

privacy?

cheating?

dishonesty??

1 thing i don't get is this, why should a couple still need to have their own privacy about their life, where in fact, they should be sharing everything about their life. For me, the only time that i should need my privacy is when I'm doing my thing in the comfort room, kay lain man pud au ug ur sitting in there sa cr, doin ur thing, nya naa makakita nimo doing it.

2ndly, why should people be afraid to let their partner see information about them? I mean, hello, partner kaha na nimo, dili kaha na stranger or something nga dapat dili makabalo ug mga information. unsa pman imo dapat itago nga kita naman gni na imo partner every inch of your body, kana na nuon information about nimo kay dili nimo sila tagaan.

3rdly, if you have nothing to hide, then this "privacy" issue is not a big thing, especially since your partner is the one that requires the information.

As for me, i don't mind giving information to my gf coz for 1 thing, wala ko g.tago.2ndly, d more i deprive her, the more she would want to know about it, w/c would only make me more suspecious, so i avoid that at all cost.

When i want some info about her, then i ask it outright, why should i waste my time trying to sneak and look at her stuff secretly, i don't see the point to that, coz like i said, if a person has nothing to hide, then there is no point of being afraid to show some information.

[cp103]

btw, if i ask for some info, i don't do it like i'm demanding it or something pud ha, i ask her in a nice and proper way pud... lisud na, ingnun nya ta ug..."hilasa nimo wui"....

[acecrystal]

@ kyleeminogue

mao jud sakit man naa ka ma find out on your own..but it's better oi than expect tarong sya nimo all the while diba? then naa diay hiden agenda sa emails/texts

privacy? say for example,why would I need privacy when I have nothing to hide?

[EarlZ]

No i havent and i dont have any reason to do that intentionally, salig man kos akong GF and im not insecure =)

[marv!n]

nah... dili ko ganahan mag mata lang og buntag....