Being a single mom

[d`monyita]

hey.... being a single mom is HARD..but u have met my son.... tell me.... how is he? is that not VICTORY?

if we focus on HOW we got burned... we will get depressed and we cannot move on.

i would rather focus on how to BURN right back... but that would be stooping down to his level. let him stew in the kawat-kawat nga balita from common friends on HOW WELL you are doing WITHOUT his help.

kaya girls.... bangon na oi! FOCUS! being a single mom is NOT the end of your life.
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[nitesky]

hey.... being a single mom is HARD..but u have met my son.... tell me.... how is he? is that not VICTORY?

if we focus on HOW we got burned... we will get depressed and we cannot move on.

i would rather focus on how to BURN right back... but that would be stooping down to his level. let him stew in the kawat-kawat nga balita from common friends on HOW WELL you are doing WITHOUT his help.

kaya girls.... bangon na oi! FOCUS! being a single mom is NOT the end of your life.
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nagdagan na gani ko... hehehehe....

[Sol_Itaire]

@d'monyita
super kid! reminds me of how Sharon Cuneta has raised KC. naa ka diha nga level, Dee.

[d`monyita]

WOW.... wishing ganun din ang level ko sa finances noh? bwhahahahaha. that way i would not have to worry about the next month or the next.... or even next year... wishing ako i can afford an army of alalays to assist hahahaha. wouldn't that be fun? lol
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[high_heels]

if we focus on HOW we got burned... we will get depressed and we cannot move on.

i would rather focus on how to BURN right back... but that would be stooping down to his level. let him stew in the kawat-kawat nga balita from common friends on HOW WELL you are doing WITHOUT his help.

kaya girls.... bangon na oi! FOCUS! being a single mom is NOT the end of your life.
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I totally agree with this statement, definitely don't stoop at his level specially if he is not making any sense anymore. Duha namong nagpaka uwaw and nagpaka kingkoy sa publico. On the financial part, if you are able to stand up on your own then do it. If a guy is more responsible than what he claims to be, he will find all means to support the child. "Walk the talk" matud pa nila di kay nag sige ra ug saad.

Another thing that I want to stress out, do not solicit sympathy to people around you by telling them your stories and how bad and depressing your situation is. It is best that you move up and move on with grace and not be a loud mouth. It's understandable that we need the emotional support from all these challenges, but remember that at the end of the day people around you even family members will always have something negative to say about you. That's why be smart enough with your remarks...One persons story is his/her version of the story, in which we are only seeing a certain angle of the full story. Base from my observation people who talk too much are also people who cannot let go of their baggage's or need to face themselves as well.

[rocketdog31]

Another thing that I want to stress out, do not solicit sympathy to people around you by telling them your stories and how bad and depressing your situation is. It is best that you move up and move on with grace and not be a loud mouth. It's understandable that we need the emotional support from all these challenges, but remember that at the end of the day people around you even family members will always have something negative to say about you. That's why be smart enough with your remarks...One persons story is his/her version of the story, in which we are only seeing a certain angle of the full story. Base from my observation people who talk too much are also people who cannot let go of their baggage's or need to face themselves as well.

I agree with this 100%. People with sob stories claiming they cry themselves to sleep at nights when in fact they are out partying at nights should learn to shut up and stop spreading more lies. Emotional support is due when there really is emotion involved as many claim to be the victim when they are truly the ones at fault... that's why one should be careful about the stories they spread.

People who talk too much do indeed need to face themselves. I just hope they realize it is themselves they are referring to and not trying to pass the buck on someone else.....

And yes... WALK THE TALK. Learn to face yourself.

[Sol_Itaire]

WOW.... wishing ganun din ang level ko sa finances noh? bwhahahahaha. that way i would not have to worry about the next month or the next.... or even next year... wishing ako i can afford an army of alalays to assist hahahaha. wouldn't that be fun? lol
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I have a feeling you will get to that level hmmmm. Just remember I had the feeling Obama would be elected


@rocketdog and high_heels
It's the dynamics in the marriage that is the problem, not necessarily the 'other'. If couples can get past the blaming and focus on the unhealthy dynamics instead, then perhaps they can move on to making adjustments or parting ways amicably.

[V@nity]

Ask ko lang, ang father ang ni sign sa live birth sa bb. And asa d ai na kuha-on ang b.cert? Needed pa d ai mo sign ang father ana? Wat if mo larga mi ni bb abroad? Ive heard na once ang father nka sign sa b.certificate maglisud gawas ang bb?

[d`monyita]

exactly! i was told the same thing. and that was my mistake. having him sign. kasi friends pa kami nun. haaaayyyyy.

you mean u do not have a copy of the cert of live birth? u should get it at the hospital where u gave birth, sis.

[V@nity]

exactly! i was told the same thing. and that was my mistake. having him sign. kasi friends pa kami nun. haaaayyyyy.

you mean u do not have a copy of the cert of live birth? u should get it at the hospital where u gave birth, sis.

naa nko tanan papers ni bb. hayyyy, he asked of it kasi and kami pa nun.
sakto ba akong buhatun na mo ask ug financial sa father bsan dli mi kasal? coz i really want him to pay. were totally over, i broke up with him. and hopeless nsad xa mo reply sa twag or tx. i always his parents about us, and gusto ko ibigay nya sa bb ko ang nhatag nya sa iyang anak sa iyang ex. wat if dli mo support ang father, naa bah legal way to force him pay?