it would be a sore loser for a person who would replicate their ex's...each individual is unique...and for me..it would be stupid if i would try to make a move to impress my present and do things the same way as i did with my ex...my present is not having the same characteristic with my ex..what pleases my ex may not please my present..i should treat them as two different person..but i would never show standards for i don't want to keep it for the rest of my life..
when it comes to arguments...why would you brought up "you're not like him..." like you are starting to compare your present with your past...a persons past has nothing to do with his present or future...as what other say "past is past"....

bottom line is...never try to mold a person into someone he/she can never be...