
Originally Posted by
unspeakabLe
some consider this as an insult but for me guys do have their own right to let go if they feel they can't take any more longer. as for me, i also find it very insulting if i'll be the one who will utter those break-up lines. it's my weakness actually to be the one who will initiate the breakup. i really can't do it. coz i know it'll hurt the guy..
like for my past relationship, me and my ex were not able to talk and settle things down. we were not able to have a formal breakup because i can't do it.
for my second relationship, i actually experienced this. my guy was the one who broke up with me. not personally though but through sms. we're actually miles away at that time..he's got only 5days to stay here and after that he'll go abroad. so he broke up with me. w/ the reason that he can't let me stay here alone.. he can't accept it if i'll cheat on him.. so to play it safe he broke up with me. he dont want to worry bout me left here alone and free while he's away that's why he's done it. at first i thought it's just a joke.. because his reason is not right at all.. i tried to convince him but i got the same answer..keep on crying.. didnt talk to anyone..didnt eat well.. was really shocked.. two days have past, he called me saying he never really meant to breakup with me.. he asked me to just forget it and start again..i just told him we'll talk by the time he comes back. time came, we met and settled everything. now we're still together.