
Originally Posted by
laagan_si_organizer
TOTALLY WRONG!! i wanna discuss this one-by-one (NOTE: based on my experience)
1.) that guy don't really love you, he is just either using you or just having fun
sad to know, that's the general perception of the society. i used to have a boyfriend richer, better-looking, and more popular than me. now, should he still be using me? what could he use me for? if you could give me an answer, then i might have second thoughts on this. how would you know if a person really doesn't love you? just because you're a homo, it doesn't automatically take your right to be loved.
2.) you give him everything (your time,your love & even your money), one day he will leave you
just relevant to no. 1. with my ex (Francis), he was always the one who gives me time. he always makes efforts of seeing me without me telling him to do so. money? it was never an issue to us. it was a give-and-take relationship. he gives me things i've never asked, and without asking anything in return. again, he was richer than me, so what could he use me for?
3.) even though he have a relationship with you, but behind your back he has a girlfriend.
hah! how would you know that? have you ever been to one? for me, it's no biggie. if he wants a girlfriend, then fine. as long as i became a part of his life, so what? he must make sure that he has to break it off with me before he finds someone else. with Francis, i've never had this kind of issue. i was even the one who's trying to push him with some girls, but he always refuse.
4.) stop,look & listen, have you ever heard there's is foreverness in a relationship between a gay and a man?
STOP, LOOK, & LISTEN!!! what are you? a 1st grader or a kindergarten-kinda-guy? foreverness? do you believe in such thing? i thought it ONLY happens in FAIRYTALES?
if FOREVER = FAIRYTALES; FAIRYTALES = FANTASIES; FANTASIES = UNREAL
...then FOREVER = UNREAL...
5.) if you are still deeply inlove with that person, better stop than magmahai, ulahi ra ang pagmahay.
uhmm...KNOCK, KNOCK!!! does this only happen to same-s e x relationships? ugh...i don't think so!!