bro, been there, done that, nga hapit na muluksu sa luym bldg, akong ma sulti bro, sau lang ta nag mid-life crises, la ta kabalo how 2 deal ana situation, i learned that we have to recognize on what area nag lisud ug mau, seek professional help, they can answer ur question at the same time pray and let God to talk u, give Him a chance bro ayaw cge ug complain sa, pray in the silence of ur heart kay ma surprise raka ngano gaan na imu paminaw, remember bro, mau gani nga bata pata maka experience ana kay inig adto nata sa ato prime age, perting nang daghana ug problema ang mga anak na mapasakitan.