Confused right now, help!

[lady_in_blue]

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I'm really confused right now.... what shud i do last nyt i slep at almost 2am na...d guy who courted me before.... well....he comes back to court me again but this time, he already had a gf....oh my God...i wasn't able to entertain him before becoz i prefer som1 else....but then now...i think i like him na... the fact of the matter is...he had a gf...in which i'm the reason for that situation of him..tsk! tsk!....i asks him last nyt..."do u still like me?" he said, "YES, i really like you a lot"...oh my...i want him to clear things off before he will hop into another level...into watever his decisons will be....it will depend on my answers....until now, i haven't answered him YES or NO.... the story goes like this.... i'm single and available...and he had a gf already as of the moment... his ex whom he considered FLING b4 but getting serious when i reject him....i am d reason daw!?....he leaves space at that tym 4 me but i didn't give him a chance over som1 elses...alangan mo entertain kog dghan? one at a tym only jd..and nahan man cya na sugton daun, saonz?! eniwes, last nyt..he courtd me back...but this tym...nanigoro na cya kay basin my answer nasad is "prefer som1 else dan him" pra fair dw, amo itry mo work out ba...he will prov himself for months, and dat excludes 3 months na mularga cya ky dli cya ka prove ofkors...hahay! nganu ng-labad labad lng jd kos akong utok karn oyyy! help!...;-P....wla pako kibaw unsa ako ireply nya..kay karn pa ko mutubag wla pa ko nka decide....

[shreanluck_bhing]

kng ako sau dapat hiwalayan muna nya ung gf nya before mo cxa sagutin kz mahirap n ung kalagayan n ikw p ang mang aagaw....maawa k din sana sa gurl...think of it first kz mahirap n ang my iba png nasasktan just becoz mahal nyo ang isat isa mybe he can talk to the girl and make the things out clear before u go to the next level of relationship...

[mikelambada]

i think you have failed to look at the bigger picture.here's the truth: he's just around to play with you.nothing else. come to think of it, if he truly likes you, or serious with his intentions, he wouldn't have to play safe. find another guy. i've heard your story countless of times through my job. heed or else, you'll cry again. good luck.

[emnace09]

mao na ni ron!!!..
posible sad nga bcn pangatik lng sad nah iyaha krn..pero posible sad nga tinuod..
dont rush things miga..ikaw ang mhimong alaot niining khimtang nga nahiagom mo krn tungora..

kng unsa man iya mbuhat sa iya uyab krn,,mbhat rsad nah niya sa imoha..pero dpnde ra nah nmu..

amping lng..yaw pdala daun sa imong gbati

[iamcreamier]

if he likes you or even better if he loves you, truly and sincerely then he should leave his gf and be with you...don't make decisions ikaw ang agrayado sis...let it be fair to you...stay safe...

[lady_in_blue]

thanks so much for the replies guys...at least mejo clear na gamay ako huna2 karon...... lisud wlay kapahungawan....;-(

[Gwynethsoul]

getting into a relationship na naay sabit is really difficult..better adto ka sa lalaki na walay uyab...

[ashmae_01]

he's fooling u sis
ayaw padala ana

[king-creole]

obvious answers comes from obvious questions.. it's just a matter of weighing which is which! my advice is that don't make things complicated because their not.. simple logic! y not take time to think through? the world ain't end tomorrow, maybe your just having blind infatuation or something like that!..

[monrose29]

aguy ka klaro na anang moves anang lakiha oi... klaro ka ayo nga wala pod sya ka sure sa iyang na love nmo..

why man naka ingon ko?

1. why he courted you nga in 1st place wala pa sya mag buwag sa iyang gf? unsa man tubag nmo ana? shes not happy sa iyang gf karon? and then? ma ayo ba na nga move sa guy if deli na sya happy mo court sya og lain? di bah dapat iya sa nah e settle iyang situation sa iyang current gf para di ka mahimong panakip butas lang.....

2. ikaw ang reason sa iyang sitaution? hallerrrr deli man cguro na e blame nimo iyang situation karon nga naka uyab sya og lain tungod kay imo sya gi reject before ka lo-oy pod sa gf noh... so unsa man iyang na feel ana iyang gf diay karon? so its clear nga wala gyud love sya anang iyang gf karon..

3. inyo e try if mo work ba? kaneh dako gyud ka ayo neh nga risk..then na-a pay 3months nga walay labot..hehehe saon aneh na diay neh ron... kani nga term gyud lisud gyud neh sya sister.. try and try until you die gyud neh what if deli mo mo work? so ga sakit2x lang mo sa inyong dughan.. mag buwag or deli mag buwag...if mo work deli mag buwag if deli mo work aw mag buwag... yeah TRUE but remember we are just HUMAN ra gyud masakitan and ang pinaka worst gyud ang masakitan cause of love..

ako lang ika advice is think twice. take it easy, ayaw pag rush coz as what i observe anang nga guy gusto niya ma pa sugot dayon ka...wala pa gali sya nag buwag sa iyang gf..which is serious gyud na nga issue kay 3rd party gud na, masakitan sad ang girl ana, girl sad baya ka what if ikaw ang na-a sa situation sa gf anang guy di ka masakitan?

then if mawala sya for 3months tell him nga maka pa abot ka until mo balik sya and still he is courting you, or wala gihapon ma usab iyang mga gipang sulti nmo nga he truly loves you and he mean it..

basin lang if mo sogot ka karon nah unsa-on nalang nga grabe baya na iyang love nmo what if na-ay mahitabo ninyo duha simbako lang kay aggressive ra ba ka ayo sya guy kay gusto dayon nga mo sogot ka....but im not sure lang ha..maybe lang bah..prevention is better than cure d bah...

so good luck nalang....