HELP Crying over a forbidden relationship!

[alexandrabovia]

ikaw nlang balhin office... di pod ka kabalhin kay ganahan man ka niya.... but if gnahan jud ka mo likay sa temptation, ikaw balhin.... i know it's hard jud.... but you have to make a move.. away from him...

[joshbonz]

ngkinahanglan lng ko og mudukol sa akong ulo.. tabang...
m a 30 yr ols mother of a 2 year old boy. my husband is working sa gawas for 5 years now. twice a year rami mgkita. sa 5 years na inani among situation, wa gyud ko na tintal (bisan pa daghan ng igat2)... until now....

naay newly hired among company, gwapo, charming, endearing. amazingly, he likesme. as in mura cya og buang mg cgi og tutuk nako. i dont know sad ngano ganahan ko niya, tagalog man cya. so ngsugod sa txt2 lng mi, magcgi cya og col nako. akong officemate, ngduda na nako, bt deny ko, anyway, wa man sad cya officially nanguyab. although muapas cya nako sa mall if mulakaw ko. m so afraid na matintal ko. confess cya na ganahan gyud cya nko. i tot d cya manguyab bcz married ko, married sd d i cya... he's married with 2 kids. huhuhu

itold him okay ra. i wont change kay friends ra bitaw mi. sakit lng.. cry cry ko... what kind of a wife man ko oi....

and pls dont judge me as dirty kay wholesome ra mi. no kissing, nothing...emotions lng nako...
ouch lagi oi....

in marriage, there will always be a storm that would come on to it. To test and shake your will and emotions. On how strong or weak you can be...

This new man that came in your life, is your storm mam, and he is the tempest that would eventually shake your core emotions... I can truly understand that we humans are all but frail and weak... In all our frailty we are bound to succumb to life's temptations. this is your temptation.

Let me just say that I think your in your weak points right now, You don't need someone like this man to alleviate your weak emotion. Most wives including my mom (before my dad passed away) had solely found the comfort and the inner strength not from themselves alone... but from their own kids. The happiness your toddlers can give to you everytime you come home. The family that you have built with your husband.

This new guy is married also. You can say your not dirty, because there is no physical consumation of your emotions, but just bear in mind that the fact and thoughts of him secretly tempting and your emotions crying for this person still professes your deepest mistake.. you're still cheating with your husband.

I know an ember could be put it before it could burn the house..please do so.. you have entertain an illicit feeling for this person, you don't even know him deep down. You just barely know because you share the same work as he is... Your husband who's abroad could have undergone more temptations than you, yet I think he still remains steadfast loyal with his family. D baya lalim ang manabraho ug gawas, knowing unya lang nga ang imong partner nanikas nimo dire. You don't want your husband doing it to you sad diba?

again, find time to seek inner happiness with the ones you truly love, (your family). Don't seek out love from a person you even barely knew or just met at some work place.

Your family should be your source of inner strength and love. Put God in between your family, and I trust you.. no storm or tempest can be so strong or hard as long you redirect or rechannel your source of happiness and love to the persons you dearly cherished and love most -- > Your Family.

[chad_tukes]

not to make you paranoid or anything, but there's a possibility that your husband is doing the same thing---probably worse than what you're doing now. in other words, there are chances that your husband might be dating other women as well. just giving you a heads up because i'm a guy, and i know guys are easily tempted especially in a long distance relationship.

[tapsikret]

you've been married for 5 years na..
dont throw it away for something that is not certain..
tried and tested na ang inyong relationship..
remember the reason ngano ni sugot ka mag abroad cya..
its for your future..

[pablingz]

ngkinahanglan lng ko og mudukol sa akong ulo.. tabang...
m a 30 yr ols mother of a 2 year old boy. my husband is working sa gawas for 5 years now. twice a year rami mgkita. sa 5 years na inani among situation, wa gyud ko na tintal (bisan pa daghan ng igat2)... until now....

naay newly hired among company, gwapo, charming, endearing. amazingly, he likesme. as in mura cya og buang mg cgi og tutuk nako. i dont know sad ngano ganahan ko niya, tagalog man cya. so ngsugod sa txt2 lng mi, magcgi cya og col nako. akong officemate, ngduda na nako, bt deny ko, anyway, wa man sad cya officially nanguyab. although muapas cya nako sa mall if mulakaw ko. m so afraid na matintal ko. confess cya na ganahan gyud cya nko. i tot d cya manguyab bcz married ko, married sd d i cya... he's married with 2 kids. huhuhu

itold him okay ra. i wont change kay friends ra bitaw mi. sakit lng.. cry cry ko... what kind of a wife man ko oi....

and pls dont judge me as dirty kay wholesome ra mi. no kissing, nothing...emotions lng nako...
ouch lagi oi....

tsk tsk tsk...misis, undang na ana imu kabuang..ikaw mismo kbaw ka nga sayop ayaw padala sa tintal... basin ganahan sad ka mao nga di sad ka mulikay...tsk tsk tsk...intawn ayaw ug hugawi ang inyung kaminyuon. ayaw huwata nga moabot ang panahon na ika-uwaw ka sa imu anak.samtang sayo pa...LIKAY.

[ian_1983]

ngkinahanglan lng ko og mudukol sa akong ulo.. tabang...
m a 30 yr ols mother of a 2 year old boy. my husband is working sa gawas for 5 years now. twice a year rami mgkita. sa 5 years na inani among situation, wa gyud ko na tintal (bisan pa daghan ng igat2)... until now....

naay newly hired among company, gwapo, charming, endearing. amazingly, he likesme. as in mura cya og buang mg cgi og tutuk nako. i dont know sad ngano ganahan ko niya, tagalog man cya. so ngsugod sa txt2 lng mi, magcgi cya og col nako. akong officemate, ngduda na nako, bt deny ko, anyway, wa man sad cya officially nanguyab. although muapas cya nako sa mall if mulakaw ko. m so afraid na matintal ko. confess cya na ganahan gyud cya nko. i tot d cya manguyab bcz married ko, married sd d i cya... he's married with 2 kids. huhuhu

itold him okay ra. i wont change kay friends ra bitaw mi. sakit lng.. cry cry ko... what kind of a wife man ko oi....

and pls dont judge me as dirty kay wholesome ra mi. no kissing, nothing...emotions lng nako...
ouch lagi oi....

Be smart intawon mrs...
hmmmm.....let me guess cguro call center ka nag work?

[carpe noctem*]

in a way you're still cheating on your husband. emotional cheating, that is. this shouldn't even be a dilemma in the first place if dili jud ka.

First things first, AVOID him. Arte naka or taray, bahala unsa iyang isulti. If u can't do that, that means you care unsa iyang impression nimo.

Don't reply to his texts. Of course mag cge tx kay replyan man. I mean, if one person always texts then never gets any reply, ganahan pa ba cge tx? get my drift? hehe

Run away while u still can. Ayaw sugdi kumbaga. Kay if u start saying "yes" to him like going out, etc. then lisod na ug balibad next time. and so the saga begins...

You could get millions of advice from people but it's only you who can decide for yourself

[nirdle_phogi]

follow your heart..

[dhemiric]

do not think on what the world can offer you to day..on what temporary happiness you can have now....think of the long term effect....bsin, maghilak ka ug pop corn in the end..with all the regrets knowing you could have said NO in the first place.

[alexandrabovia]

do not think on what the world can offer you to day..on what temporary happiness you can have now....think of the long term effect....bsin, maghilak ka ug pop corn in the end..with all the regrets knowing you could have said NO in the first place.

korek jud!!!!!!