Long Distance Relationships

[KyoRebirth]

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lamat sa inu mga abiso bro... lisod sad ng mahug ta sa tabay nya d ta kbaw mo saka balik..hehe au unta ana ka sayon..

[hunt99]

Need an advice peeps... btw this is my 1st post.. cenxa na sa english hehe

I met this girl through chat a long time ago and one of my chatmates before. I didnt mind about her co'z she was just a chat mate at that time and i had many other kaberks sa chat.. till one day nag email xa naq and nangumusta... then so on and so forth...we got along together...( story is too long to tell) then nagiging kami na. eventhough naa xa sa dgte that time then ako naa ko sa cebu nag skul pa xa ato graduating pro aq nag work na....we we're sweet..exchanging i love you's daily and talk nonstop everytime we get a break from days work. till one day she decided to go to manila co'z she wants to find her luck there and look for a job so feeling nako mu samot na xa ka layo naq but i understood and gave my support co'z it's her will to help her family. a year later we finally met when she came here in cebu for a vacation... our relationship is a year old and that was the 1st time we saw eachother. we talked so much and we both felt like soulmates for a long time. till then she got back to manila para mag resume sa work then the next thing we talked about was "me" going to her place then a year later.ako na ang ni adto sa ilaha sa dgte... i met her family and her relatives there and it's nice pud since magkcnabot me tanan. now comes the time that we need to be far away from eachother napud...she's in manila for her work and im in cebu for my work. almost a year later sa amo communication the world got smaller since halos tanan things amo na na storyahan. the sweetness is gone yet kami ghapon yet i understood co'z lisod jud ang long distance relationship. there came a time that she wants me to go there sa manila co'z she's so tired na of being alone all the time. I explained to her that i need to work and save more and for now im still helping my family, but she resists to understand this time she really wants me to go there to manila for her, yet i cant afford to those things that she want at the moment co'z i myself dli pa ko financially stable and nag help pa ko sa ako family, after that she threatened me nga mag bulag nlng daw me and mangita xa ug lain.. I admit ive fallen for her deeply, I want to make her happy and may untag adunahan ko pra makahtatg ko sa iyang gusto but i'm not... im confused now..i love her...but i dont want to leave my family. i told her that pde ko mo anha sa manila but i cant stay there longer. iya man gud gusto nga sa manila ko mag work but i cant leave my mom and dad sa cebu co'z they're old now and masakiton. yet now she told me that who should i choose.! my family or her?

i think bro that girl na miss gyud sad ka ana niya or pede sad wala pana siyay trust kaayo nimo or pede sad na gi test lang ka niya kung kaya ban imo or pede sad nana siyay lain nakit-an did2 onya kabalo na siya na di gor nimo kaya biya-an ang imo parents pero ang question nano di man siya ka agwanta kung wa ka na kabalo naman na siya daan na importante sad na imong parents ky kung wala na imong parents buhi paka na masakiton na gud na mas maayo pa bro go to manila and talk to her perog di siya kasabot gyud tell her na kung wala pa akong parents di sad ko ma ing-ani perog di siya kasabot na ako pa nimo bro just move on

[merijaan]

Most of the chatting/internet relationship experience of some of my friends turns into falling inlove..turn to true love...but long distance relationship is very tough,sometimes they feel so hurt knowing they love each other but cant feel/physically with each other in real...hayyy...LOVE ..Love...Love....you will never know that ur inlove until u will feel hurt...

[jlodarl]

it works with patience...

[zhrike]

okay ra man siya as long as you have each other's trust lang jud... naa man gud uban diha nga abi ka-chat lang nila ilaha na dayung binuangan... that's not how it works...

[prukutung]

depende sa duha.... pero lai assurance sa fidelity anah...

[GOSPELofROCH]

no.......................=P

[fire starter]

it wont work, it will be okay for the first few months or year and then frequent arguments and trust issues arises until cge nalang ug away buwag na dayon kai kapoyan.hehe

[mariox]

naahh... the virtual world is very different from the real world... tanan nindot naa sa first murag wala moexist ang bati...

[rockford_fosgate09]

depende sa duha...

agree ko ani.. @ts imo ni relationship?