Wo Ai Ni: Regarding Relationships with Chinese and Chinese-Filipinos

[r0mm3L]

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i can be exceptional if my bank account is thick

this love of mine will be tested very hard indeed

[diem]

@r0mm3L, well that's one way of looking at the big picture.. good luck sa love and fortune!

[Witherwind]

im chinese... my family is strict about it but i fought for the person that i love...
i made it a point that my parents will understand...
there are families that are into that but not all...

[diana_20]

im a fil-chi... d gyd mu.sugot most of the parents...

[Spec-V]

Its kinda Ironic...most of your ancestors migrated from Mainland China, why not go back there & live there.Â* That Tradition has to Go!Â* That will create more wedge between the True Blooded Filipinos & the pure or Half-Bakes.

Responsible Parenting & Guidance is essential but choosing & instilling the same race for Friends, BF/GF,Â* Future Husbands/Wives & somebody needs to be a Chinese or half-baked as a prerequisite;Â* is Bigotry in my books.Â* And I cant Stand a Bigot!!

[denis_jay]

had a gf, weve known each other for 13 years and thats the exact number of years that her tsinoy family have continually discriminated me as if they belong to a higher kind of breed...

a family friend got her tsinoy gf pregnant, he as asked to meet "the family", they forced him to tell them how much money he has in his bank, how many properties he own...same old story, its all about the money

i have lots of chinese friends, theyre great especially if you give good business to them, its all about what's good for them, if they greatly benefit from you they'll treat you like a baby but once your out of juice they simple kick you out...thats true, im sure youve heard of it

notice how tsinoys speak chinese to a fellow tsinoy infront of a pinoy, its really insulting, they talk as if youre not there...i dont have to explain why they do that...

before my old friend chink died, gi ango2x na cya adto, he keeps on cursing pinoys coz we are lazy daw, we are just after their money...its quite a long list on how they brand us.

my tsinoy friends accept it man, that how theyre raised, no low-lives should get in sa ilang "higher class family", its tradition...if they break it theyll insult their ancestors

dotn get me wrong here, i got lots of tsinoy friends and theyre great, but one thing will never change, its all about the money baby...AMEN

[denis_jay]

from babydoll: ...but they went through so much trials before they married. Importante man gud ang family background, relations and business sa among family.

there you go, "business sa among family"...true gyud na, but we cant blame them, thats how they are raised, kita pud mga pinoy we have this thing na pa relax2x lang...bad

kinsa gani owner sa sm malls? john gokongwei (correct ba ang spelling? hehehe) orsi henry sy? anyways the people praise this guy because of how he elevated himself from scratch, yeah its great, but what about the way he treats his employees, mga sales ladies magbarog whole day nya mao ra nay sweldo? how can you be soo proud with that abusing theyre poverty and talent by giving them that kind of pay with a heavy job...sa mga malls nice kaau ug position ang uban there are managers, supervisors and all that pro ang sweldo gamay ra ghapon...no wonder why theyre filthy rich...

mao na ako i wont work for anybody else anymore especially chinese establishments, honestly theres a small posibility na you can work your way up gyud no matter how good you are and how devoted ka sa imong work theyve develop a system na diha ra gyud na kutob, i know that coz i use to work for several chinese people..i wont work for them anymore, now that i have a biz my chinese friends laugh at me coz my biz is smaller than theirs yet i give a higher salary plus free lunch and dinner pa gyud, so im doing this coz i know what its like to be a "tuta sa insik" and i wanna break that unjust treatment..i just smile back, in my mind i curse them im no tsinoy you freak!Â* peace!

[pnoize]

yes it does matter to them. something i don't understand and will probably never will. they call themselves Filipino-Chinese and yet they don't want any Filipino to be their family or circle of friends. Might as well stick to being Chinese.

Ok, ok. Most Fil-Chi will say "you don't understand because your not Chinese, it's part of our culture." Well, here's what I say "Your in the Philippines darling, not in China."

[splendid moonlight]

dili na racism? hehe.

[Spec-V]

dili na racism? hehe.

racist dyud to the 5th power. no matter how they justify nga "you dont understand coz your not chinese" thats bullcrap!!