forbidden love

[azz_gurL]

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hmm..

i need ur opinion guys..

i have a friend who is already married, however he was like flirting with me. i kinda like him as well, thats why nsugot ra sad ko sa iyang mga gpang diskarte sa akoa.. we've been together for how many days.. kuyog mi in everything.. and he told me that he thinks he is fallin in love with me daw.. i told him not to because kabalo jud ko na bawal jud kaau. so i dont know, but after such few days, ning cold na sya sakoa. wla na sya nakigtagad2x tapos as in putol tanan commu..

i was kinda hurt pud sa iya gi act because in a way i also seem to fall in love with him.. <guys, mind you.. i already have a bb however im not yet married> however i dont have a choice.

what shud i do man guys? should i go and talk to him and maybe work things out with him? or shud i leave it as it is <wala mi tagad, pero kita mi perme sa office>

[Mugi17]

waaaaa... ayaw pag.ingana gurl oy...
maayo sad na wla na sya nagtagad2x nimo, nakarealize na sad
siguro siya nga sayop jud inyo gibuhat......

Anyhow, whats "bb"?
baby?

[azz_gurL]

hmm. i do understand ur point. pero we were friends before man sd. for friendship's sake na lng sad unta bah.. kasabot ra mn ko, mao btaw i warned him not to fall in love with me.. Hehe.

tnx for the comment

[joshbonz]

bro.. i think "bb" is baby jud...

anyway sa imoha sis..

this is what mostly anang mga married nga tao.. they fancy and flirt a lot, especially to girls whom they think are emotional in nature.

I think judging how he had treated you at first nga nindot kaau cyag 'style' nimo, so caring and all that.. and it turn cold.. gone sour after nalang.. could mean one thing only..

when the times nga nyc ug nag court cya nimo and everything seems alright with him and you.. in that time.. he may have some quarrels with his wife or he may have some family problems( with his better half) and he was seeking some fun with someone who can give him some enjoyment sad (<--- that's you)

later on.. when they have patch up their feuds or whatever they have quarreled about with his wife.. he left you cold and hurt..

simply analogy ra na sis.. he loves his wife more than you do.. and as much as I like to tell you this.. 'Gigamit ra ka niya oi ..' when atong tyma nga nag-away cya sa iyang wife ug nagkinahanglan cyag laing emotion to feel his empty needs...

You just got to face the music and move on.. what you got w/ him is just -April to May affair.. the fast as it started.. the fast as it goes... nothing more and again.. nothing less... MOVE ON and don't give him the benefit of the doubt anymore that you like him pa.. co'z he really AIN'T THAT WORTH TO GO AFTER with.. trust me on that!


CHEERS!

[Mugi17]

nmah, for friendship's sake man kaha, ok lang siguro magstorya mo, ipreserve ang friendship but anha na lang kutob, married siya diba? always bare that in mind... bahala gud ug gwapo siya, look na lang ka
mas gwapo, mas happy pa ka......
u warned him not to fall in love with you but wala nimo gi.warn imong self to fall in.love with him...ehehehe

@josh
naa sad ka point bro, mura maka-relate ko gamay...ehehehe


OT:
bitaw bitaw, unsa man tagay ta u nya para makalimot ka miss TS?

[azz_gurL]

@joshbonz

hmm.. i kinda realize that one now.

is there any other advice in the future.

[azz_gurL]

@mugi

mao lage. lisod mn gud kaau cause he was so sweet to me.. dli jud nmu malikayan na ma inlove sad jud ka.

[Mugi17]

haaayyy.... ka-bad jud namong mga guys oy...ehehehe
ok ra na' miss TS basta next time if naa married or in a relationship nga
guy magflirt2x nimo, ayaw tagda... UWAGAN ra na'...
ikaw ra gihapon looy....

[bahiista]

ako advice nimo, tagda lang kung makitan nimo but hold yourself back from falling inlove sa guy..you're destroying a home kung mupadayon ka...and you're not building yours.. ^_^

[azz_gurL]

tsktsktsk! mao mao gyud. haay buhayz.