marry someone u want or u cant live without?

[lady_blackrose]

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i have this friend...he is getting married real soon and its like a whirlwind romance.he only have known her for 3 mos.until he decided to propose which happened last month and theyre gonna marry next month..which makes it 4 mos.since they met...i find it ridiculous...but he kept telling me that his inlove and its like he have known her since forever...ive been telling him his way out of his mind..if its about wanting someone (i mean to sleep with someone)he can do it but getting married just coz u want someone...that a different story.isnt it?i told him his gonna regret it coz theyre still in the stage of getting to know each other...they dunno each other's true colours yet. ive been giving him warnings yet he didnt pay attention to it..im scared for him.its like...love has made him a total nuts.im scared that theyre marriage might be a disaster...his a very nice guy...i havent met the girl yet and i dont wanna think of bad things but on the other side..i wanna be happy for him coz he seemed so inlove.what scares me most is whats gonna happen if after a couple months of marriage they'll find out that they're not meant to each other?and his a millionaire btw.not a peso millionaire but a dollar one so his head costs alot.

[depzi]

sis wala kaha na cya gi lumay sa iya girlfriend....the fact na millionaire man kaha na imo friend
all u can do is be there for him, when things goes wrong..ana mana basta friend nato...

[lady_blackrose]

sis wala kaha na cya gi lumay sa iya girlfriend....the fact na millionaire man kaha na imo friend
all u can do is be there for him, when things goes wrong..ana mana basta friend nato...

i was even thinking the same but everytime i open up conversation like lumay-lumay to him.his just gonna laugh at me.i dunno if this whirlwind romance really happens?and if it does...is the marriage gonna work out?he is reallly such a nice guy...i dont want him to be used and abused by any woman.he is already like a brother to me.

[bebeth]

sumtym's whirlwind romances ends well...let's just pray that they both deserve each other..

[Princess08]

hahayst.. naa rajud na nila..

[egent_kakashiZero]

aw laki bitaw na cya..la bitaw mawala..if binuangan cya..that's a lesson or charge to experience nlng jud na..total cya bitaw ang nkig minyo..cya bitw ni propose..If hes happy wit it..just support nlng...la nmn ta mhimo ana..

[tiger_yap8]

cant leb wid awt hahah

[Maikeru]

how about u let him read book about marriage? naa daghan ani nga book sa NBS inspirational section.. Who knows it might hit him.. I hope it'll hit him. Or you let him watch a movie about broken family and all. Most people would mistake marriage as a happy ending man gud. It's rather late they would realize that the "happy ending" thing is just an icing laid on the cake. As what Bo Sanches said in 1 of his book, marriage is the craziest/biggest mistake he ever made in his life. But later he said it was also the best he made ^^.

[joan_of_arc324]

we can't really tell...i think the success of marriage does not depend on the length of time u knew each oder ...naa man uban na tag 7 yrs na bfor getting married and once they do, they still end up filling for divorce kay daghan factors na mo take play ana...just pray na since they're rushing and still on the getting to know stage man kaha, their love for each oder will not alter when alteration finds....

as for ur question, i'll marry d one i can't live w/o!!!mura rman nig cyag buying things that I WANT and NEED...prioritize jud ang need, pero ug pwede both, much better!

[Maikeru]

aw laki bitaw na cya..la bitaw mawala..if binuangan cya..that's a lesson or charge to experience nlng jud na..total cya bitaw ang nkig minyo..cya bitw ni propose..If hes happy wit it..just support nlng...la nmn ta mhimo ana..

Woist yaw sab ana woi.. yes laki xa but haven't you considered if naa na nya cla mga anak? Sa broken family bya ang anak jud ang makalolooy. The TS is just concerned also sa happiness sa guy.. which is not just happiness nga karon lang nga panahona, but also for the coming times. And you can still do something, if you'll just try.