The Role of S*x in Relationship?

[The Good$!!!]

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Hypocrites...

[hunt99]

no depende ra gyud na kung unsay huna huna sa taw pero mas ok gyud onya na lang gyud na buhaton kungm minyo na

[tallthel]

jst be mature enough nalng so ul know wat to do if it's right or wrong ba....

[raboy50]

Buwagi na oi, ayaw patunto kay gibinuangan lang ka, makakita ka pa ug mas maayo pa niya, dili kay sya ray dunay bolitas.

[girly_band]

y man nabelong ka ana nga situation?wala diay ka kabalo nga naa xa gf before nimo xa gisugot?kaw na nuon nag suffer..kung love nimo xa, unya dili man xa ka let go sa iya gf, kaw na lang let go niya.makalimot ra ka soon.and besides, his not only the guy sa mundo noh..naa pa ka makit an labaw niya.

[thinKingMan]

if kaya na nimo ang inana nga setup then go for it, pagpakaboang sa gugma
but if nag libog naka, listen to the advice of the majority here. wlay kay makuha ana nga relationship.
pangitag lain oi, daghan pa mga laki dinhi sa cebu, heheheheh

[jennesse]

Some guys have all the luck.....

[kamote_kid]

I Love him and he loves me too. He cant let go of his gf and he doesnt want na magbreak din kami. There are times that I want to let go of him, but I cant and Im so confused. I dont know what to do. Please help me. What should be the right thing to do?

All I want is your opinion and advices. Weve been 1year and 3months now. Our relationship started from text. He is the bestfriend of my friend in college. One time umuwi yong friend ko sa negros and she has a pic of me. Naipakita nya yong pic ko sa friend nya, yong "guy". At hiningi yung number ko. And so he txtd me but I ignore him because I have a bf at that time and then we lost contact. Until nagkahiwalay din kami ng bf ko and nagkatxt kami ulit nung "guy". And he court me, nalamn kong nagkahiwalay lng sla nung gf nya at my bago na syang gf ngaun. Pero niligawan parin nya ako. Sinagot ko sya, pro wla ako feelings sa knya. just to make myself busy and my pagkaabalahang iba para di ko narin maicp ung ex ko. I did not realize Im starting falling for him. Throughout sa relationship namin twice lng kami nagkita at nagkasama. His from negros and Im here in cebu, its so hard for us na mgkita palage. His gf is from negros too kaya palage sila nagkasama, anu ba magagawa ko. eh ako nmn ung 3rd party and his gf doesnt know about us. Alam ko mali at gusto ko naring matapos relationship namin pro dko magawang i-let go ung "guy". Mahal nya ako, pro di nya maiwan ung gf nya. Di rin daw sya makapili. ayaw nyang mawala ako ayaw nya ring mawala ung isa. Db kung saan ka masaya dun ka. MAsaya ako sa knya, I want to let go but Im blinded with what Im believe is right. Please I need your advices more.. And I dont know if minahal rin kaya nya ako. My heart believes him but my mind wont. And im confused..?

The heart can be very misleading at times. You have to let go and be ready to face the consequences. Accept it, you're not in love for what or who he is but you "fell in love" with him because of your situation when you met him. You tried to make him a rebound guy because of your failed past relationship thinking that such action would help you ease the pain faster. You still have lots of love for your ex-BF and because you broke up, you are looking for some recipient of this love. Well, I tell you, you are just trying to prolong your agony because only time can heal such wounds.

Strictly speaking, you're not in a third party because I don't think that there really has been "you and him". Your communication is merely through text and he's with his GF in Negros, what does that make you? His pastime. There's actually no point of continuing it, you are at the losing end so you have to be the one to put an end it.

And just a little bit of an advice, don't make the same mistake twice. Don't get into another relationship after a failed one just for the reason of making you feel good or forgetting about your ex. Face the pain and learn from it.

[Bruhilda]

2nd rana sya nga basis dili na sya 1st... part lang ghapon sa relationship

[GOthique]

.......NO!!!...it's not jud...as in!...its not the basis.

++ d jud noh?! LUST na siya..it's not LOVE