10 yrs. enagagement.. is that a good reason to get married?

[jaspertang]

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if its because of indifferences then for the 10 yrs they were engage then they were not true to their self. just my insight

[shyler]

if your bestfriend really likes to go home..let her go home...
its a natural reaction..she wants to save their marriage...
ipabuhat niya ang tanan tanan gyd na way to settle their situation..
after all, f wala ghapon..at least she did her part...
no regrets..and she can move on..
lahi rman gud f dili xa mo uli...naa ra xa sa layo..
dghan au xa ug mga "what if's" the question......
wat f ni uli xa bsin na save pa ang relationship, like that.
at least f naa xa diri they can talk and make a conclusion...
because this problem is not something that can be talked over the phone..
its different gyud f personal...


goodluck to your bes....

[Zarkuu]

if your bestfriend really likes to go home..let her go home...
its a natural reaction..she wants to save their marriage...
ipabuhat niya ang tanan tanan gyd na way to settle their situation..
after all, f wala ghapon..at least she did her part...
no regrets..and she can move on..
lahi rman gud f dili xa mo uli...naa ra xa sa layo..
dghan au xa ug mga "what if's" the question......
wat f ni uli xa bsin na save pa ang relationship, like that.
at least f naa xa diri they can talk and make a conclusion...
because this problem is not something that can be talked over the phone..
its different gyud f personal...


goodluck to your bes....

thanks ha....
don't you think that's a gud idea? give up iya work ? her family is also depending on her,,,
and we know nga dli ana kasayun mka balik sa states ... well mura na ug pili xa marriage or career...
hahay usahay mka think nlng xa ug bad things... i told her to consult someone atleast dli xa mabuang ug hunahuna....

[Zarkuu]

well, there's nothing we can do about your bes at this point bec. she's in the US man kaha so ang ma-storyaan r gyd nato personally kay ang lalaki. now, do you know each other ba? have you talked about your bestfriend's feelings? what did he said daw? well if you mind sharing it with you, pero we had the same dilemmas man pud gud sa akong cousin before kung unsaon pag-help bec. basically these are people who are confused and are emotionally stressed at this moment and won't think rationally. on my part, I just empathize on him kay I should not sympathize coz it won't help gyud, inom diri, inom didto, smoke diri, smoke didto, panghagis diri, panghagis didto, then ikaw pud otro sad mu-join pud niya sa iyang mga vices....

PS: pero actually pa-secreto lang ko ug inom kay lami man gyud inum-inum...

hehehe... ang laki kay narrow minded.. and na assign karon sa bukid...ang family sa guy naulw na kaau sa akong bestfriend. but ang guy kay dli na xa maminaw pati sa iya parents.. wla na jud xa pakialam....cold njud kayo xa... is it possible na gkulam xa... hehehe

[tools4kools]

hehehe... ang laki kay narrow minded.. and na assign karon sa bukid...ang family sa guy naulw na kaau sa akong bestfriend. but ang guy kay dli na xa maminaw pati sa iya parents.. wla na jud xa pakialam....cold njud kayo xa... is it possible na gkulam xa... hehehe

maoba? paeta gud d.i..

well, murag binuang gyud xa. like he's just fooling around! fooling himself, fooling his wife, fooling his parents and his wife's too, and fooling everybody esp. God coz minyo biya sila...

is this happening lately lang? coz if baguhay ra ni na problem then his being irrational will surely fixed him up for sometime coz its defense mechanism to save himself from all disgrace, shame, ignominy and prejudice. IMO, normal ra gyud na if your confused and don't know what to do...

IMO, he is isolating himself for the mean time and if he's ready to speak up, it might be to you or to somebody who he trust, then all you can do is assure him that you'll listen, like ayaw dayon i-judge ang taw.

[Zarkuu]

maoba? paeta gud d.i..

well, murag binuang gyud xa. like he's just fooling around! fooling himself, fooling his wife, fooling his parents and his wife's too, and fooling everybody esp. God coz minyo biya sila...

is this happening lately lang? coz if baguhay ra ni na problem then his being irrational will surely fixed him up for sometime coz its defense mechanism to save himself from all disgrace, shame, ignominy and prejudice. IMO, normal ra gyud na if your confused and don't know what to do...

IMO, he is isolating himself for the mean time and if he's ready to speak up, it might be to you or to somebody who he trust, then all you can do is assure him that you'll listen, like ayaw dayon i-judge ang taw.

this is happening now.... as in jud.... last september nag start ila mis understanding... cge na kasuko ang guy saako besstfriend... puro maut nlng iya pirmi makita... wla nay good things nga iya ma remember.. labo na kaayo cla karon... if mag talk mi ako best galisod kog tubag saiya mga questions... she's starting to think nga its her all her fault.

[tools4kools]

buanga sad niya sa? if in your knowing with this man, dili ni xa inani before, would you still believe na there is still the love sa iya towards your bes or wala na? to think, if your confused, you can't think rationally, you can't control your emotions, and its just arises subconsciously without you knowing it you have affected tremendous pain towards others....

[P-Chan]

ako gi think ani sah.. nag engade ra sila para ma "reserve", insurance dili siya ma unhan ug cheat..

[emb_ventures]

hahaha...after 10 years di ba puol na man ni....break na lang oi....weeee...cheers

[kiekim]

mura na siya sa cliche nga "too much familiarity breeds contempt relationship "and Sometimes too much closeness stifles desire,”...you know every inch of each other and there's no more unfamiliar thing to explore so you begin to feel the thrill is gone and no longer there and you will feel you no longer love the person or you fell out of love....that's the reason why i'm not for long engagement,i've witnessed a lot of this kind and its so sad to see it come to an end that's the reason we got married right away so we can still explore each other inside the marriage.