its a different solution to every different culture around the world...but we all have our right thoughts on we perceive things....well marriage is immediate reaction to this situation...but we tend to adopt the trends and acknowledge the right thing....silod siguro ang mag minyo unya inyong feelings are in different dimension...mas lisod pa jud ana ang bata nga walay apil sa imu situation na walay complete family nga dak-an!... but we have choices and faith on everything we do...so do it wisely.