a perfect situation, a broken hearted girl looking for somebody to confide and lean on and man, as we are, love to become some sort of "knight in shining armor", and as humans, be somebody who can be leaned on and help. but when reality strikes in, a lot of things that have been overlooked starts to come to surface hence, once blinded by feelings started to see things the way that they should be and eyes opened up to reality.
@TS:
wala ka gibinuangan sa imong GF. it just happened that you came in at a very wrong time. normally, ana jud na. after a hard break up naa jud na ang mingaw ug sakit sa buot. the tendency is, mangita dayun ug lain thinking that that "new one" can at least compensate the loss and eventually finding out later on nga dili diay, it's not enough, not even close.
my advice would be, just let it be and go with the flow. ayaw na lang tubayi iyang mga sakit nga ipanulti nimo and at the same time, don't act desperate. understand that she might still be having a very unclear state of mind or in short, wala gihapon nakarecover sa pag break nila sa iyang BF. give her space, give her time. and who knows, in time she will just realize that you're different from her ex-BF. don't expect her to love you at this time because with her state of mind, klaro kaayo nga iyang ex-BF pa ang naa sa iyang huna huna.