Teenage Pregnancy?

[chad_tukes]

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well, it's not always the PARENTS. remember, there are a lot of teenage kids who repeatedly rebel against their parents even with utmost love and care. as to why they do this, i don't know.

[joshbonz]

i agree with you chad.. but remember.. kids are kids if you treat them as one.. if you treat and let them feel as adults already, then they would assume as such and so, they would slowly and surely accept responsibilities, from minor ones to major ones...

like i've said.. depende ra jud na giunsa sila pag dala sa ilang parents.. A child who wakes up to violence will at one point of his/her life resort to one..

Environment? social peer pressure? depende ra lagi jud na sa parents involve.. if you start your child early to let the doors of commnication open up for them and you let them see your views, being an invicible brother or sister to them.. instead of reprimanding and scolding them all the times w/ their faults and their failures, you would show them that its perfectly fine to commit one and to accept the unacceptable.. be the best they can be with whatever they choose to do, laugh when they do.. congratulate and appreciate whatever they have accomplish, be a shoulder when things got in their way.. i think you are slowly gearing your child to be what you want them to be..

again, going back... it all depends on how their parents reared them up... I should know.. my parents taught me all the things i needed to know.. plus with my own life's learning as well....

[darkdruid]

mao ni ang resulta sa gugma nga dili kahibalo magpugong. pag-kuhit palang, nitunga dayon ang gana... as normally said "nakuyawan ko sa unsa mahitabo, sakit ra ba kaayo... pero lami pud" --- mao ni ang tamauran sa "lust".

i dont think this kind of trend is good... but since this has been a hell of trendy act... maybe the right thing here is S*x Education. kanang pakit-on ug films for them to know what to do... and realize earlier that doing it would mean they need to sacrifice something...

remember that at the end, its not the mother who is at deeper risk.. but instead the future of the child.

[Kishin888]

badlongon naman gud mga batan.on karon ... cge lang ug casual *** ... makalagot

[chad_tukes]

i agree with you also, joshbonz. good point.

ever heard of Jeffrey Dahmer? he was a well-known serial killer, rapist, cannibal in the early 90's. he was interviewed on NBC and asked about what his childhood was like. he said that he was like any other normal kid, except that he was fond of opening animals up so their meat and bones were exposed. that experience led him to eventually do the same thing with humans. he was known to have opened his victim's bodies after he killed them and ate their organs.

his father wrote a book about experiences with his son as he was growing up. he wrote in detail how he showed love and care to his son as a child, that even up to the point that Jeffrey got convicted, he continued loving him for who he was. he claimed that Jeffrey's behavior was due to several reasons unrelated to his upbringing, and it's more of a mental state rather than emotional.

i might have been off topic already but i wanted to relate Jeffrey's story to this topic (i know it's weird that i chose a serial-killer topic). basically my point is that parents do not always influence their children's behavior. yes, i agree that parents have an integral part in gearing their children to be what they want them to be. but when their children are old enough to know what is right and wrong, they definitely can decide for themselves and not depend on their parents to teach them lessons.

if they're 8, yes i can understand. but if you're 16, you are old enough to know you should practice safe ***.

[joshbonz]

nobody is old enough to know bro.. eventhe oldest person on this earth has all her/his age as his/her asset for all the experiences that he/she has or had undergone, but still he/she needs to know how to do something.. he/she may have all the best experience that life can offer, but nevertheless, he/she needs still or might need still to learn how to muster and operate a computer or to use the ATM dispenser when opportunity is called for (i doubt if she ever used one in her life ..

in life nobody is old enough to know everything.. we need somebody to guide us and to teach us what to do..

because life is and in all aspect a learning process throughout...

just my take

[T0xic]

nobody is old enough to know bro.. eventhe oldest person on this earth has all her/his age as his/her asset for all the experiences that he/she has or had undergone, but still he/she needs to know how to do something.. he/she may have all the best experience that life can offer, but nevertheless, he/she needs still or might need still to learn how to muster and operate a computer or to use the ATM dispenser when opportunity is called for (i doubt if she ever used one in her life ..

in life nobody is old enough to know everything.. we need somebody to guide us and to teach us what to do..

because life is and in all aspect a learning process throughout...

just my take

others learn the hard way, mao na....maka learn sila pero di na sila ka get out sa situation. too late na.....

[tallthel]

they chose it to be dat way...amping nalng jd cla sa ila baby....

[t1m0y]

if they're 8, yes i can understand. but if you're 16, you are old enough to know you should practice safe ***.

Permission to comment on this ha...

I think this is a matter of foundation. Of course, parents can't influence their kids if they are already 16. As what the saying goes "Guwang na ang lubi, gahi na kaau bawgon"...

I see chad's point. Yes its a matter of responsibility. And the basic of responsibility is being taught by the parents.

Family is the basic unit of the society. How degraded or civilized or good or etc. the society is equates to the type of family that belongs to that certain society.

his father wrote a book about experiences with his son as he was growing up. he wrote in detail how he showed love and care to his son as a child, that even up to the point that Jeffrey got convicted, he continued loving him for who he was. he claimed that Jeffrey's behavior was due to several reasons unrelated to his upbringing, and it's more of a mental state rather than emotional.

I think this is a matter of how he showed his love and care. If loving a child is just giving all its wants and needs, tolerating the child's fault, or not teaching the child the difference between right and wrong and not putting discipline in accordance to love, what good will it bring? Maybe, yes he showed his love and care to the child but the question is, did he loved his child the right way?

[scope_hunting]

ana jud na ang mahitabo.. di naman ka maka huna huna og tarong if naabot na ka sa point of no return then climax kabooom!!! unya naman ka ma ulian kung mahuwasan naka.. maka ingon na dayon di ko safe ron.. or ang laki wa man ko kapugong toinks... bisan unsaon og layat2 inig ka human di nana matagak kay pas pas mu langoy.. hay.. proper guidance ra jud sa anak og constant communication cguro