Love VS. Parents and the like

[khailee]

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It really is COMPLICATED ..... when ur torn between people & a difficult situation.... but in the end .........
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Â* Â* Â* Â* Â* Â* Â* Â* Â* Â* Â* Â* Â* Â* Â* Â* Â* Â* Â* Â* Â* Â* Â*- u always have to make a choicE


Take time to PondER... if Â*u intended MARRIAGE...coz its a Lifetime Committment & i TaKEs a LIFETIME to Prove It...

Always bring to mind , that in the End u always Have to RELY ON URSELF .... Â*- coz its ur LiFE... U decide...

[monrose29]

yeah sakto jud ka khailee..its your life... ikaw dapat ang mo desisyon....

its easy for u to say.. parents.. or gf.. but if na-a nata sa actual nga sitaution dili jud na n ana ka sayon.. i been there na....

my x is came from a well known family... yeah datu sila.... ako pobre.. but wala man i against iyang parents nako but ang iyahang bro.. og iyang tiya... coz they think money lang akong gi apas.. and most of all.. wa koy stable job.... lisod jud ka ayo kong family na imong kontra...

sa ako lang experience ha...what if pakaslan nako sya.. then walay tarong relationship between me and her family...so na-ay tendency nga magka lalis me one of the member sa iyang family...then ako pod mga igso-o wa pod ka oyon sa iyang mga gipakita sa side sa akong gf.... unya ganahan ka mag ipon mo nga na-ay mga gi tago nga kalagot ang usag-usa.... how can u call it a ONE BIG HAPPY FAMILY.....

kong love nako sya dapat nako ipaglaban? what if kong ikaw lang nakipaglaban ang imong partner wala.. kay di man sya ka force sa iyang family? how long can u suffer that situation?

but deli ako ang ni give up..ang akong gf.. the reason is... kong unsa kasakit ang akong na feel gikan sa iyang family mas gisakitan pa sya....u know why.. kay diha man nya han-ok tanan... like kong magkita me.... kasaba dayon iyang madawat.. nagkita napod mo.. bla2x.... other day.. nasad same gihapon..... unya kay di man sad to pa pildi akong gf.. mo sokol man to bisan laki.... pila ra man tawn kusog sa babaye oy kong ma hinaykan jud sa lalaki.... in ana kafa-et among set-up....

ma o na usahay ma phobia nako aning relationship... di lalim masakitan.. pero saon mani s kupido nga pataka lang tira anan iyang pana.. si monrose pod nga nag patara lang.. nahhh ambot...

inom ta ninyo oyyyyyyyyyyyy.. hehehehe.

[greatSicnarf]

fight for my luv1..

[scarab]

Its your choice, If you really love her/him...fight for her/him...agains all odds.

even the bible says, a man/woman will leave his/her parents to join with his/her spouse.

[jerlyn]

ipaglaban mo..

[Onins]

............i doubt imu ning parents........i think ur refering to you GFs parents noh?..............of cors i will also object.......mag unsa nalang akong anak nimu?............bahala saging basta loving?...........

@14344 who are you to say that? do you know me? im not referring to my GF's parents coz theyre my parents too. Im a married man and I have a good relationship with my in-laws. I have a very stable job, my close friends here in istorya can back it up! I just stated a situation and then say your reaction and your opinion but please dont make it personal. I doubt if you're as presentable to your partner's parents as your post seem to imply.

[chubelita_cutie]

Situation seem so real…huh! Pa demure pa jud ka dha khailee….anyhow, I agree with you…all of us are given this free will and intelligence….a gift of knowledge and logic…..heehehehheehee…mura correct! Seriously….go for what you really want…choose and decide! The question here is not who you will choose, but it is who I will be with that can make me happy…….

[websniper]

You need to choose both. Just like in a win-win solution.

[itwasnme]

": say because your partner is poor, no stable job, different religion, theyve already chosen someone for you"

If I really love this person, and have talked about settling down.. this means this relationship must be important. With reasons such as being poor, no stable job, religion and especially theyve already chosen someone for you. Its not going to cut it for me. I would have to go with my partner. Ill just have to work hard and make up for her short commings. Had the reason being, she was a married woman, escape convict, serial killer lol , or a gold digger. Then I would have to go with my parents.. thats if ma ka bantay ko anang mga negative nga bahin. kani rabang ma inlove ta, way lain sakto kong dili ato ra gyud gi bati sa atong gi higugma.

But then again, kong may buot naka og sakto sa idad. Ikaw na bahala sa imong decision.. total kaw raman pud ma nubag sa imong kaugalingon mga lihok.

Good day! Â*

[junjiejoan]

our parents always look after our own good... if somehow naa jud cla reason na dili kamo angay, i'd say yaw na lang supaka. this may sound absurd coming from someone like me who disobeyed her parents(to the point nga layas2x) and married young(pro wla pa kids ha) but i guess i am just lucky enuf na okay ra ako husband k buotan man. pero what if he turned out to be the opposite? luoya kaha nako noh k makaingon jud ako parents na merisi! pro whatever ur decision is, for sure atong parents bisan d ganahan k support na lang. bitaw, it would be better if we just listen to them. let's not hurry things up. i kamo, kamo jud no matter what... there's always a reason why certain things happen aight