
Originally Posted by
joshbonz
I think you're confused because all in all, your pride got hurt most of it.
Based on what you've narrated, you've been the guy shelving and doing all the crap, for everything to your GF. You've moved things, here and there.. ALL for your girl.. (even to the point you said that you have choosen her more than your family itself.)
Sakit palandongon, nga gibuhat nimo tanan but all in all again, that someone can't give you the equal treatment. (as what you did for her)
And now, pardon me for saying- 'sour graping'. Maybe you have already counted things on what you did for her, and you're saying 'Sa tanan gibuhat nako nya, mao pa ni iyang gisukli nako??'
Just remember dude, time is not a test in any relationship (3-5 years?) is not a guarrantee that love will at the end prevail. I should know, I have been there also. And it hurts most sad...
Never count on the things you did for a person, but rather, count nalang on the memories and the love you have showed and given her. As much as you would hate to admit. BUT you have to swallow that bitter pill called PRIDE, digest and just shove it out. Learn to move on, The beauty of us human beings is that no matter how painful some stages in our life has been, we are still susceptible to change..
In time, you can overcome your hurt and your pride.. Take it one day and one step at a time..
I know you can do that!
Good Luck bro.