HELP Sakit pa kaayo

[psyd_1]

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bitaw..i trabaho nag maau imu kaguol, mawala ra lage na..

[XoXo_L_XoXo]

Jukno, di bya lalim ning senior programmer noh? unya way outlet para ma release ang stress? night life? pag airsoft! malingaw jud ka ana ug maayo. ma release nimo imong frustrations....grabe sad ang adrenaline rush (that is if adrenaline junkie ka) and a very good exercise. sports....gym.....roadtrip ug way work....volunteer work...feed the hungry....visit ka ug orphanage, halfway house....who knows, you might meet your someone special in these good places....di ba?

[DyslexicHeart]

haay, pag gawas lang ko sa akong gibati diri ha. I've been to a 6yrs relationship hapit na mi nag menyo pero nagkabuwag gihapon. that was 6yrs ago. Pero sometimes di gyud nato malikayan mobalik man gihapon ang kagahapon. It lingers, the memories, cheers and the pains. Until now I'm single at 30, and she is already married. Somehow there are things in life that you can't just let go. I've done so many sacrifices sa ako relationship, to a point that I stripped myself from being me. However some people are just too selfish.

Sometimes when we are in love, we give our everything including our self which defines us... and when that dreadful time comes when our beloved leaves us, we are left with nothing. An overwhelming sense of lose and a gap in the heart that needs to be filled gnaw us.

It has been six years since the loved one left you but the pain has stayed with you. Maybe, there was no formal closure when you parted ways. "However some people are just too selfish" > Are there still issues that need to be sorted out?

Let go of the things that are not meant to be. She has moved on with her life and you should, too. Learn to forgive.

Don't allow this experience to hamper you in finding a new and meaningful relationship...

[juknojukno]

Jukno, di bya lalim ning senior programmer noh? unya way outlet para ma release ang stress? night life? pag airsoft! malingaw jud ka ana ug maayo. ma release nimo imong frustrations....grabe sad ang adrenaline rush (that is if adrenaline junkie ka) and a very good exercise. sports....gym.....roadtrip ug way work....volunteer work...feed the hungry....visit ka ug orphanage, halfway house....who knows, you might meet your someone special in these good places....di ba?

di lalim, your brain is all stressed, drained and exhausted. Though it's fun bec. by the end of the day you got tired and sleepy. Ambot ngano kapoy gyud ni mag sige ug gamit sa utok na wala man unta ko nag pas-an ug mga bug-at na butang. hehehehe.

I tried a lot of sports to release the negative energy, I've played tennis, billiards,basketball and current nag gym ko karon. pwerte man diay sakita mag gym ta. pama-ol left and right

Thanks bro sa imo input.

[juknojukno]

@DyslexicHeart - thanks for that! I already forgave the girl, as I mentioned earlier we had a heart to heart talk this yr april. It was great release out of 6yrs of subconscious hiding. =)

though sometimes... the past haunts me, as what they say we take it 2 steps forward and 1 step backward in life.

[Sol_Itaire]

^so you mean it's no longer as sakit as before? that's good to hear kaya ^^

[XoXo_L_XoXo]

ok ra nang lawas ma-maol kaysa ang heart ( yucks ka baduy) hhahahahaaa

hapit naman 2009, new year, new dear!

[Sol_Itaire]

^you're funny lol..and baduy too

New Year New Dear yeah hehehe

happy na lagi ni na thread? basig ma lock tsk tsk

[[SCP] Shawnboy]

Bro more or less we have the same scenario but different conclusions. I had a 5 years relationship and I broke up with her and I got married to another woman after 2 years and until now she still single and from the time we had our broke up we did not communicate anymore. Even if we cross our path at malls she usually turn her head away. I think she still have the pain in her and have not let go of it yet. Maybe she hurts more seeing our baby that I am carrying when we crossed our paths.

[XoXo_L_XoXo]

lagi, that's why akong gi quote ang baduy....hhaahaha

jukno, pag emote pa para di ni ma lock.....hhehehehe