TS, the profile pic really looks as if there's something going on: giganahan pod ka niya, hehehe.
You said, "...it's as if she makes it a point to pose beside me.... " but the way I saw the pic,
ni-akbay man pod ka oi and you leaned over (that is... if ikaw tong girl in black sando). tsk tsk tsk.
I understand your sentiments re: the pic putting you in bad light, but sorry, girl, murag tinuyuan ra pod sya, no offense. Here's a piece of advice though: The next time you're with acquaintances, ayaw nalang pod pose 2x ug ing-ana, especially with tomboys. Save those pa-close effect with your best friends lang jud unless you want to play with fire. Di lang magtuyo sad kay danger lurks around the corner. Feel jud kaayo sa imong "Ate" ang pic, hehehe.
By the way, I agree with diem's suggestion in page 2. Fight fire with fire.