HELP How can I help her get over her Ex-?

[Miss Jane]

hi archspace... uhmm.. sa imong case.. i think the best thing to do is to wait for her nga ma fully recovered na xa.. kai lisod pod bya na sa amo part nga mu-forget mi sa amo past lover labi na dugay amo relationship or bag-o lang jud ang break-up.. lisod sad xa.. so, if i were you.. leave her lang sa alone.. kai she needed time to think paman.. dont worry, she'll come back to you kung okei na xa.. aryt? hope naka-help ko.. goodluck archspace..

[archspace]

well said jane..
thats what ive been doing.. support lng... if she needs me im there.. and all those stuffs...

[Miss Jane]

hehe.. thats good.. yaw lang sah sia i-pressure kawon kai she needed more time to move on.. if imo xa i-pressure maka-think man gud na xa nga samok ka.. and this and that.. so mao na, ma-discourage na nuon xa to be in a relationship again.. whereas imo lang xa i-support and pasagdan (not literally dili ka mo-care) pero if imo xa pa-decidon sa unsa ia gusto.. then she wud feel nga love jud nimo xah.. kai naa raka permi sa ia side everytym need ka nia WITHOUT any manipulation, overbearing and la ka apil2 sa decisions..

[archspace]

well i dont really mind on what she decides on... bsta ako naa lng ko para magsupport niya.. and i don intend to change her into someone else... i like her for who she is.. and not for who she's not...

[crinkle]

show her that you're better than him. no other way.

[GOthique]

+++ shacks! ka relate Kow..hmmmm 8s to easy to move on bya..they're ayt bro...just wait patienly..she's hurtin pa..stay beside her..comfort her...she needed u badly...u may be one of the reason y she's trying her best to move on...but don't push her and don't expect...just love her lang...sakit na mag expect...if kaya nmo go on..nka try nko ana before...basta happy lang ka if ur wd her..aYos lang if ma hurt ka dibah?

[keboks_x]

give it time... eventually she will forget him... but if not, then you're out of luck... just pray she will...

[moz_k2]

Tell here that there is no sense in still being heartbroken, regretful,
and harboring hatred towards that person.

Make her realize that although the relationship with that person was unique and special in a lot of ways, you can congratulate her for being brave enough to take a risk and fall in love, and encourage her heart that even though love didn't work out that time, there will be a next time.

Just always be there for her.

[angelfyre]

ohh just read this thread!... hmmm did she left u already?? yah i agree thats the lamest excuse... hmm ive been in this kind of situation before... and u know what?? girls cant easily get over their ex...

being always with her by her side doesn't mean that ur winning her... always remember this, girls usually stick to the guys that they felt they are being challenged... the guy that's TOO GOOD to be by her side ENDS being left out because they dont want to lose the friendship you already have and end up just a friend....

well thats just my opinion though... and an experience as well... sumtimes, dont give everything for the girl, be mysterious sumtimes... and let her long for you.. that way, if she seeks for you then u have the chance...

well i know what u feel, ive been there before... and its not easy to get over... but right now, im already laughing at it... ika nga ng mga kaibigan ko "pulutan nlang namin yan sa INUMAN" hahahahah....

heheheh well just keep us updated....

wat can i say? exactly my sentiments

[n0vicE_guRL]

very interesting .. i'm a newbie yet I enjoyed reading stories here in Forum. I have no regrets in joining this site. what's the latest update? hehehe ..