So after 5 yrs, I still haven't gotten over her

[sUnDoLp]

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kuyawa ani na storya oi, sorry 2 hear dat pod.. sakto ang ilang ingon na engage urself in activites. labi na kanang imong mga interesado kaau. start dating another woman bro (ayaw lng ng chixi****), sharo naman pod 5 yrs namo wa magkita.

[monmon]

your lost dude.. you didn't fight for your love...charge it to experience...

mao jd... ako gane bro kato naa pko uyab sauna nga silingan ra pd namo bisag nangabot nami ug barangay ky dli ganahan iyang iyaan nko kay kawat.kawat man gane ghapon me. fights jd bro..

[wxyz]

salute jud ko sa imo love sa gurl, imagine after 5 yrs, u still love her... or iba na nga klase nga love? what i mean ba, dili na sya ang romantic love...ask lang ko, is your feelings for her ana pa ka intense pareho ato una nga nanguyab ka?
...maybe pud noh, you wake at night tungod pud sa guilt nga imo sya gui let go.
for 5 yrs. wala jud ka gf?... if love pajud pud ka ato nga gurl noh, she'll also find a way na makapag communicate sa imo, like internet or friendster o kaya maybe kabalo siguro sya sa imo address... sa imo part puede pud na guihapon nimo buhaton.....
... tingale pud kuwang ra ka og closure mao na di ka ka move on...
be happy, move on... if that gurl loves you truelly then she'll be happy seeing you move on & vice versa. finding a new love does not mean to forget the person who was once special to you. treasure those moments nga gauban mo, when your sad coz you miss her, pag remember lang sa days nga uban mo, then smile.
libog nako? hehehe... bitaw basta mao na na...

[ronn_co_go]

Move on to what? The only thing I enjoy in my life are suffering and pain... coz its the only real thing that makes me feel alive. Happiness is just an illusion

[NOTE: IF THIS IS REALLY TRUE]

I'm no expert... but I guess, the only person who can help yourself is YOU. We're just here to assist someone like you, to give you our insights and our humble opinions. If you wouldn't accept it, then no one can... worst, no one will... it'll be your own burden. And if you're just listening to your self, no matter how much we'll try... it will still turned out to be wrong. Reality hurts, that's what they say... and I'm one of them.:P

If reality makes you feel alive, then why not accept reality.
If happiness is just an illusion, then live in illusion to make you feel happy even just for awhile.

Questions...

Why keep punishing yourself...? is 5 years still not enough...? what's the point of this post, if you're only listening to yourself?

[okatokat]

that's true, move on
then do the basics, date with other pips
divert your attention to other things as much as possible
slowly but surely it works

[DeathFox]

engage nlng ug other stuffs that will make you happy dude..
even though dli mka happy nmo completely.. pero at least u tried...

u can't punish yourself for so long oie..
move on cguro..

and IF she comes back.. u know what to do nah...

pero ayaw lng jud pagdahum kai sakit kaau nah..

Sayang naa kay uyab, patabang unta ko nimo to forget >_>

[chormatus]

"Moving on" is easier said than done especially that you both love each other so much [at least when you were still "officially" lovers] and there was no formal voluntary break-up [she was forced to do it] that took place instead distance tore your relationship apart.

I know you are still waiting for that day when she will come back and reunite with you. Maybe you are also thinking whether she feels the same as you do and she is also waiting for the "MOMENT" like what we see in television.

You are still in the grieving process of a lost loved when you should have moved on in one or two years time. You need to realize that while you are grieving for your exgf, you are also loosing opportunities to love and be loved again. You focus on your lost loved so much and you fail to notice attractive woman around you who truly cares for you.

You are crying over spilled milk. The probability of meeting her again is very slim.. but it is possible. Start loving again, don't waste opportunities but open your heart in case that "MOMENT" will come that she will be reunited with you again. Kung kamo jud, you will land in each others arm again.

[john_yo]

I didn't f***ng give up, its her ****ing parents that sent her to the states para mabulag mi

you sound like theres no hope anymore, just move on, and maybe someday mag abot ra gihapon inyo roads.

[raphz]

Long story short, teleserya type love story without a happy ending. The parents of the girl doesn't like me, coz they're too "rich" and wan't a family friend (which my ex didn't like) na ka."level" nila for my ex. And that jackass did everything to break us up, like sipsip to the parents and tell them that my ex and I were gonna meet. Anyways, in the end... my heart is gone And til now, I still sometimes wake up in the night coz of that

there r really people who only dwells for money n dictates to their children what n who to be their partners. it is still present aroud here and im very very very sure of that. they praise MONEY as their GOD.
anyways bro, my only advise to u is to fyt for it jud if u really love d girl but doesnt mean that ur goal is to have her back but instead to show how u really love her. then it wud b girl's decision if she would fight back for u...if not then be it but wats important is u showed everybody especially to her how much u truly love her. that u wud never regret n look back coz u have done ur part. bytheway, most girls r in nature will give in easily to their parents decision eventhough how wrong it is. lucky for u bro if ur girl fyts back so hard for u. so sorry to hear ur very sad story bro. Pray n time will heal u.
but always keep n mind that all things happen for a reason and that reason is for u to find out.

[bluefa!ry]

if you really want to contact your ex... sayon ra na... ciaro wala na cia sa friendster.. pangitaa sa internet oi...