in every steps in our life we would eventually have our decisions.. we can't have the best of everything really in this world..
that is the beauty of life.. it involves sacrifices... you have to forego and surrender the other to gain that someone.. It's a risk.. but isn't living in this world everyday a risk already?
you choose, and stand for it. even the water put on highly unplained cemented place would eventually seek out an area here it would settle down permanently....