Is love a feeling or a decision?

[blank check]

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of course it's a feeling but you have to decide on how to deal with that feeling. so it's both.

you can't just decide whom to love. try deciding to love somebody you just can't stand, we'll see about that.

and on the other hand, you can't just love without making decisions. otherwise, you're just as immature as you think you are mature.

[amaw]

very well said blank check :mrgreen:

[lance148]

decision of course

[chitgoks]

it's both a feeling and decision. but decision comes after the feeling. kay you decide man dayon after what you felt.. if mao ba jud ni siya or dili...

[greystoke]

both...

[forum_angel]

i thot it was a decision..but just these few weeks...i realized it isn't...but it could be either though!

[babydoll]

love is both but the tendency is that we use our hearts (feeling) rather than our mind(decision). there was a time when i told myself and my friends dili najud ko atong laki pero when i see him i forget all my resolutions dayun. i cant help it.

[sweet16]

decision ur inlove

[blackheart]

L.O.V.E. . . . .

it's a feeling b'coz. . God gave his only begotten Son. . . wow grabe. . hehehe

somehow it's a decision b'coz God decide to send his Son to save us. . .

huh. . grabe. . libog oi .. . ('o',)

[amaw]

L.O.V.E. . . . .

it's a feeling b'coz. . God gave his only begotten Son. . . wow grabe. . hehehe

somehow it's a decision b'cozÂ* God decide to send his Son to save us. . .

huh. .Â* grabe. . libog oi .. . ('o',)

wait, let's not get confuse about the love of God and the love of the opposite(and nowadays, sometimes, with the same) ***.

....according to some experts, there are 4 kinds of love:

Agape -Â* or the spiritual love, is the love of God

Storge - the love of your family

Phillia - the love between you and your friends

Eros - the sexual love


......and I think the thread starter is referring to the last love mentioned, which is EROS, the sexual love.Â*