Martyrs for Love?

[karl007]

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To communicate or not to communicate, to win her back or not to win her back...

After all that she did... would it be worth it to keep her and be with her for the third time or not?

Would it be possible that despite of all these predicament that we had, love can show its ways?

Would it be worth keeping for a person who did something wrong to you, but still you want her to be back in your life?

Is this a sign of martyrdom?

[twalalyn]

para nako?? Dili... we all know we make mistakes 2nd or 3rd but there are things that happen that can really change everything in a relationship and make its turning point and happened for a reason. this tym should be her move to win you back and ask for forgiveness and rebuild the trust that's been broken...i don't think it makes you martyr if you take her back because if you really love that person and she's sincere & willing to rebuild the relationship again...then go for it coz no matter what other people say you are the only person that knows what really make you happy....

[karl007]

para nako?? Dili... we all know we make mistakes 2nd or 3rd but there are things that happen that can really change everything in a relationship and make its turning point and happened for a reason. this tym should be her move to win you back and ask for forgiveness and rebuild the trust that's been broken...i don't think it makes you martyr if you take her back because if you really love that person and she's sincere & willing to rebuild the relationship again...then go for it coz no matter what other people say you are the only person that knows what really make you happy....

THAT is if she would take the step and build build the confidence again. That is...

But what if you, again trying to win her back despite of her inconsistencies and mistakes that she did on you, would it be worth it? How would others perceive on this situation?

Just thinking...

[twalalyn]

if she hasn't really learned from her mistakes and too inconsistent of rebuilding the relationship, then its tym to let her go and move on and save all your energy for somebody else who is worth more of your love. i think she has to realize it for herself of what she really wants coz maybe she isn't ready to settle down that's why she's still making mistakes, exploring and still inconsistent w/ her actions...

[karl007]

if she hasn't really learned from her mistakes and too inconsistent of rebuilding the relationship, then its tym to let her go and move on and save all your energy for somebody else who is worth more of your love. i think she has to realize it for herself of what she really wants coz maybe she isn't ready to settle down that's why she's still making mistakes, exploring and still inconsistent w/ her actions...

Point well taken, although it is easier said than done, but it depends on how you move on and how to break away sadness that hinders you to move on.

Charge to experience... but still keep the fire burning within....

[twalalyn]

your situation now reminds me of what happen between me and my X...hehehehehe... mao nang maka relate ko... toink!

[Musette du Coudray]

It is never easy monsieur. Like I said, life isn't complicated, people made it so. It's your call, if love revolves... love conquers.

[karl007]

your situation now reminds me of what happen between me and my X...hehehehehe... mao nang maka relate ko... toink!

I understand. I know there are a lot of people out there who have the same experiences. This is not a unique story, but one can never deny, once you're into that situation. You will be blinded.

[karl007]

It is never easy monsieur. Like I said, life isn't complicated, people made it so. It's your call, if love revolves... love conquers.

Oui! Merci, Mademoiselle!

[clare]

If you love the person, does it really matter how many times you take her back? If God can forgive you 70x7 shouldnt you do the same to the one you love? Why do you dwell on the wrong things she's done? what about the good things? What really matters to you? That she's willing to come back or that she made a mistake and was brave enough to admit it?