Do's and Don'ts for a Good Relationship?

[karl007]

Sometimes if you're too close already you tend to have this thing as OVERFAMILIARITY ...Respect wanes and one seems to be taken for granted... Â* The best thing to do give some space for each other so that both of you may grow individually.Â* Maintain respect, understand each other no matter what and have an open communication always.Â* Remember everything has a reason.

good point.... I think we failed on the open communication part.

[greatSicnarf]

two things ra.. Fidelity n Respect!!

[garilaps]

nice idea people but i think it depends on both gender. I believe that you shouldnt assume people! You wouldnt really know even if how good you are in executing such beautiful romances and love but still your part has something like this and .

Then I think you are afterall at the losing end. DONT ASSUME PEOPLE! Always remember that the only thing that is FIXED in this world is CHANGE! So you can even ask for an assurance even if how much you have given your love to them STILL they will always go back to their roots and to the kind of person they really are! CHEATERS WILL ALWAYS CHEAT AND LIARS WILL ALWAYS LIE!

as you have said, what is fixed in this world is change. being a cheater or a liar before doesn't mean that they will stay the same..

Anyway, in every relationship you must learn to trust and be honest to each other.. try to do the best for your partner without giving your all.. learn to have limitations for your own sake and your partner as well.. nothing is said to last forever.. but is it nice to know if you will work to make your relationship work for that forever.. that may sound impossible.. but then again nothing is impossible, especially if your realtionship has God in between of it..

well you might not end up together in the end.. but it should not stop you from moving on.. life is full of trials, that is meant to make us strong.. we must learn from our past, understand it very well, don't just know it.. its hard i know.. but, hey God is listening.. He is always ready to help.. just ask and have faith.. you can always trust Him..

well, Good luck to all of us..

[sanesilly3]

learn to meet halfway..compromise...listen more than talk..be sensitive to your partner's needs..timing..be child-like rather than childish..open communication..quality time together and quality time apart..stop being needy..emphatize..

[Hime]

we all know that "love" is the basic foundation of one's relationship but somehow, you fail to let ur loved one felt that he/she is being loved by you. sometimes, you thought that the things you've done for him/her is enough but its isn't...you thought that by giving EVERYTHING to him/her is enuf but it isn't...somehow, that EVERYTHING wudnt still be appreciated by him/her for that isn't the thing he/she wanted..

Learn to be more sensitve for not everything that you thought is the key of letting him/her feel loved.. there are times that your partner just wanted to be appreciated in a very simple way and that is....just be with him/her..learn to appreciate the things he/she has...dnt be too busy on other things except him/her...if he/she wants attention..then dnt hesitate to give it to him/her...dnt ignore him/her...coz you should believe on the saying that "....just give out your best before its too late.."


for maybe the time you've realized this things...he/she is not holding on anymore....and thats a SuPa "bad news" to you..

you lost someone you've loved your whole life with...... <can you handle that?!> if you wana ask me...well i dnt...hope you do too....

[RanieBoi]

must hav trust and commitment.

[cebu_tux]

Be honest to her always...
Share your thoughts and feelings with her...
Make her feel like a princess...

[amaw]

I think being yourself is one of the things that can keep a good relationship...

I dunnno, I'm not good on relationships and im not a love guru...

[lance148]

understanding is the good aspect in one relationship

[sulfura]

don't cheat ...