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trust jd importante. and open communication. if u want to say sumting, say it. dnt make him guess. say wat u mean, and mean wat u say. d tendency for girls man gud s 2 say d opposite..e.g...nangluod, but then kng pangutan-on kng ok ra, moingon ug okay bsan dili...nya ikumkum ra sa sulod..in d long run, not good for the LDR. lay down ur cards, say wt u want, ur xpectations, frustrations, etc. tanan. para clear ba. basta. trust and open communication @ all times. dont go 2 sleep wen u havent ironed out inyong away. and tell him that u dont take crappy answers like 'i was busy man gud'. its usually a red flag in most LDRs. Busy iswhen he is the president of the US, or he is an astronaut n is floating in space [he wont b able 2 read ur txt msgs in time] or he is a member of an extremely popular band! if d guy loves u, he will always have time for u. thus keeping d communication lines open, and not making u paranoid [there goes the trust!]. whew!




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..... pero ang naka pa it kong ikaw strong ka and trust sa imong partner and sya deli aw deli jud mo work......
you have to work hard to make it work... dili jud diay sayon. i agree with dakki, there should be trust and communication. for me, communication is very important jud, my bf left for another country, bago lang jud and i think ill be seeing him after 9 months pa. it breaks my heart jud to think nga dugay mi dili magkita. we work in the same company then gipadala siya sa gawas para mag-support ug trabaho didto. we get to email and call each other everyday, but lisud jud nga dili nimo makit-an ang person, especially if naa ka'y mga insecurities... paet!

