HELP My BF nabuntis niya iyang Ex- What to do?

[confidentlooks]

how sad...biyae nlang bf nimo...not honest jud..unfair

[dreaming217]

leave your bf.....what would you do if your in the shoes of the x? what then? what about the parents of the guy? your bf is there son....right? not the parents....your a girl...can you handle the idea of him having a child from someone? can you take on that responsibility? the only hard thing in breaking up in this situation is you two are planning to get married or you yourself is pregnant....are you? love? what about love? he did love his x....he loves you and you love him....that be true...but when would reality sinks in to you? 5yrs in the relationship? im sure the parents of the guy would understand your decision...its not like your neighbors....hehehehe

[aLohaBby]

pagpa-buntis na lang pod sa imong ex para fair..hehe

ka lol ani na suggestion oi! XD

if naa xa'y anak sa lain, would it make him unlovable? ayaw'g ka hadlok! ikaw gud iya gi pili... diha na masukod inyong trust sa usa'g usa...

[windfara]

let him go. . .i know you love him but you dont want to stay at the middle of everything. . .your competing with a baby. . .

[windfara]

your in a relationship thats to complecated. . .do what you feel is right but in the end don't regret what you had decided to do. . .

[Soul Doctor]

wat shud i do? akong boyfriend kay nabuntis nya iya ex, buntis na d i daan before pa nagka-kami.. pero wala xa nagsulti sa iya parents kay for him wala na jud sila.. but later na hibaw-an sa iya parents about what happend, kay ang family sa girl nitawag ug gipahibaw sila sa situation sa girl, suko kaau ang parents sa akong bf and according to them dili daw sila mosupport.. mura jud kog mabuang pagkahibaw nako.. naglibog ko sa akong buhaton if im going to stay w/ him or im going to leave him.. for him break na jud sila, gpapili xa sa iya parents f kinsa iya ichoose and kung unsa iya decision, para nya dili na jud daw xa ato na girl, break na jud daw sila.. my boyfriend ask me to stay.. i want to stay but im afraid when there will come a time nga magbalik sila coz of the baby.. pls help me guys i really dont know what to do... im really really confused...

Put yourself in the girl's shoes.
It is very convenient to deny when you are a guy.
Face the truth.
1.)He never loved you in the first place. I'm 90 percent sure of that.
Because if he loved you, he would have told you first about it.
2.)He is not man enough to face his responsibilities. This could happen to you too.
What if you get yourself pregnant, and he goes courting another girl saying that he never loved you anyway.
3.)You deserve better. He is a complete waste of time.
He did that to the girl.
He will do it to you, that is for sure.

[hobie]

I have to agree with the above post. Medyo bias but definitely true

[uwagan]

sayon ra kaau mo ingon ang laki nga dili na nku love cya. kay ngano? dako bya kaau sya ug responsibilidad sa na pa buntisan nya mao deny nlng gyud gusto rana cya maka ikyas sa iyang responsibilidad.. para sa ako buwagi nlng na while sayo2x pa.

"let go when u need to hold on, hold on when you need to let go" char! heheh pray pud ni GOD!

[Soul Doctor]

Pasalamat kag dako nga dili ikaw ang nabuntisan.
Biyai na lang jud na daan.
Dako kag problema kung padayon ka niya.
Lagmit pa jud mobalik siya didto kay naa na jud silay anak.
Siyempre ang babaye buhaton tanan para mabalik niya ang lalake.
In the end, ikaw ang makaluluoy.

[madredrive]

biyae na lang jud na mis.. kay sus.. ikaw ray mo minghoy ana.. and lain sad kaayu ikaw mo buhi ana.. and tinoyoan man pud na sa lalake bah.. kung love ka niya wala unta xa ga ing ana.. wala unta xa ga sugod sugod nga manguyab nimo.. so ma hug nga panakip butas ka sa iyaha..