What if Married Friend Confesses Love for You?

[jntio]

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ssshhhhiiiiiiiittttttttttt!!!!!!!!......

[makathy]

actually.. this guy friend got married because he got the girl pregnant.. and we were friends before he got married pa.. this situation just makes things between us uncomfortable..

what would you do if he would give you gifts? would you accept it even if you know that there's something behind his gestures..

libog ani oiii.. hehe..

[OTTILIE]

nah, don't believe him... you got to forget about him. anyway, there's someone for you that will really love you! You know if he loved you he wouldn't even think of doing it with some girl right? and having a kid with someone, right? I f he loved you he would at least try to show ot tell you that he loves you!

[Dorothea]

What would you guys do if you have a married friend (who has a kid) confessed to you that he is inlove with you?!

That he was inlove with you even before he got married but never had the guts to tell you til now.. :o

That is indeed an awkward situation. I would do nothing. I would still be his friend, as long as he knows the boundaries of our friendship. Pero kung mag hatag hatag na gani ug gift, unya medyo lain na ang lihok, aw dili na puede.

[DyslexicHeart]

actually.. this guy friend got married because he got the girl pregnant.. and we were friends before he got married pa.. this situation just makes things between us uncomfortable..

what would you do if he would give you gifts? would you accept it even if you know that there's something behind his gestures..

libog ani oiii.. hehe..

Dearie, ako pakutana, do you have or had feelings for this guy friend of yours, too? If ever there is, this is where the confusion sets in. Even if he tied the knot because he got his wife pregnant, the sad fact is, he is already a married man.

Regarding gift-giving, it would be wiser not to accept it. He might think he will have a huge chance to pursue an illicit affair, that the feeling is mutual and that you would also want to have a relationship with him.

Do not entertain him much, dearie, kay magdahum niya. Hina-hinay palayo for your sake. Kagwapa raba nimo sa imo avvy. I am pretty sure daghan mga single (eligible) guys nga magkandarapa nimo. Mas way labad sa ulo ang mga suitors na unattached...

[stampAcrete]

Just say thanks. Ni express ra man kaha siya, wa man nanguyab.

[jntio]

ka amaw gd nya. dapat dli na cya mo in.ana. maried+kid na bya. dapat focus na cya sa iya family. gusto pamn mo tira ug lain. mka sasala na nga laki dai. ayw padala. wake up! haha!

[journeyman]

Kung gwapa siya mangambot na lang jud ko.

[rodsky]

I don't know about you guys, but with all the available contraceptive devices out there, I truly and honestly believe that getting someone "accidentally" pregnant these days, is a plain and simple act of stupidity/ignorance. Thus the next question you should ask yourself is, would you still want to "get in on" with a married, stupid man?

-RODION

[makathy]

Dearie, ako pakutana, do you have or had feelings for this guy friend of yours, too? If ever there is, this is where the confusion sets in. Even if he tied the knot because he got his wife pregnant, the sad fact is, he is already a married man.

i never really thought about my feelings towards him until now.. before.. i just considered him as just a friend.. period! and until now.. i really don't feel anything for him other than brotherly love..

the thing is.. sayang lng bah ang friendship.. uncomfortable na..

and the fact that i'm friends with his wife makes things more complicated?! i don't even know how to act when i'm with her.. knowing what her hubby told me.. but i think that it's really unfair for her part..