Naa bay ka.ayohan kung seaman ang mabana or ma amahan sa inyo anak?

[lana21]

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thanks for all your comments...mau jud lana 21, mag ampo jud ta ani...that is what i am always doing even before nga nagkakami, labaw najud kadtong nagka uyab nami, kay hadlok man diay na ilang work uy..i'll be married to a seaman next year if i-bless ni God amo plans...mahadlok ko nga excited pud ko...but i will just say to myself that if i welcome fear in my heart and mind, i am alllowing satan to meddle in our relationship...but no, i won't allow him to do that, my God is stronger than him...mau prayers rajud akong panagang ani....thanks ninyo tanan!! God Bless

bitaw ana jud...........heheheeheheh....ampo ra jud makatabang ani tanan

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.. uhmmm .. depende rajud ni sa tao.. d nalang ko mu-comment further, coz i once had a seaman bf and i dont like the situation.. how much more kung married na..

[santinunez]

Naa future sa imo mga anak...kong nahan lng ang girl mag home mom seaman hehe

[lecreigh]

if the guy has the correct values and attitudes, the relationship would surely survive.

my dad is a seaman and my mom is a teacher...
they raised 5 children for more than 25 years.. no problem whatsoever.
the fact sad siguro nga buotan jud akong papa helped.
plus, he knows na he can't find a better wife for him than my mom.
so everything has to be OK.
my mom was not the paranoid type. she knows that we she can survive without my dad and he knows that... so i think that helped.

ambot lang pud.
respect sa vows lang jud.
pray.
and stay away from temptation...

[necrotic freak]

huna-hunaa lang imong allotment dai...

[inamorata]

thanks for all your comments...mau jud lana 21, mag ampo jud ta ani...that is what i am always doing even before nga nagkakami, labaw najud kadtong nagka uyab nami, kay hadlok man diay na ilang work uy..i'll be married to a seaman next year if i-bless ni God amo plans...mahadlok ko nga excited pud ko...but i will just say to myself that if i welcome fear in my heart and mind, i am alllowing satan to meddle in our relationship...but no, i won't allow him to do that, my God is stronger than him...mau prayers rajud akong panagang ani....thanks ninyo tanan!! God Bless

hi babygin2005! just got back to istorya... Glad to find someone like me who has a seaman bf/fiance. Five years na mi sa amu relationship and it's a rollercoaster ride gyud. I can say na na-experience na naku being a seaman's wife although not legally coz we're not married yet. My fault naman coz kapila na sad sya nag-propose naku, ako ra man gyud ang di pa ready... Mao single gihapon ko but unavailable.

Kadtong question nimu: "Naa bay ka.ayohan kung seaman ang mabana or ma amahan sa inyo anak?" --- I would say it's really a matter of perspective. If ikaw ready gyud ka sa path of a seaman's wife [months of waiting for him, being ms. duda queen, being quarreled by his sisters, temptations abound, miscommunication, etc.] -- but this is not to discourage you, reality really bites...if ready ka, then take this road. Of course, kung na'y downside ang life sa seaman's wife... daghan pud ta benefits... Most of all, you have to be a strong woman to be a seaman's wife and mom/dad sa inyo anak.

As for "every port, report"... ang laki polygamous gyud na by nature but his fidelity to you relies solely on the foundation of your relationship...trust, communication, honesty, empathy.

Kabawo ba ka na lisod pangetaun ang baye na mahimu seaman's wife? Ngeta gyud na sila gwapa, buotan, masaligan ug maayo sa tanang aspects... Mura gyud ta mga Amazona para nila. They're so lucky to have us and hadlok pud na sila ngeta ta lain.

Sa work nila, you have to orient yourself pud. I've met some seaman's wives na wala gyud alamags kung unsa'y trabaho sa ilang bana, bisan ranggo or nga'n sa barko sa ilang bana...luoy intawon tong mga seaman. My fiance is aboard on a tanker vessel plying Europe and risky gyud ila work. That's why praying for them means a lot.

On health checks pud: I've done every precautionary measure I could think of. Pap smear, tanan... Better be safe than sorry. You should too. Daghan ra ba AB na musugat nila kada port... AB = Akyat Barko. Salig lang ko sa ako uyab kay he's a man of principle man gyud...

[tarpolano]

naa jud kaayohan kay dollars gud ang income.. pero kung kabalo ka nga pang chicks imong bana.. basin dli ra kwarta ang iyang madala para nimo

[xinevirtucio]

il beg to differ ako papa seaman...la man mi problema..hehehe....im close to him, his close to me and my mom...he calls every week....i dont think the trabaho matters it's HIS CHARACTER that will matter...^_^..so in short....pangitaa ang saktong isda sa dagat....^_^

[babygin2005]

korek...never cease praying lang for ur relationship and ikaw pod, leave a little something for urself. i mean emotionally pod ba. its better naa anticipation pra naa preparation if things myt not turn the way u wished it to be

kung magminyo na gani mo, ayaw kaulaw to tell him basta mag uli ka ...id rather not take the risk of u getting sick, better kung check mo ug doctor just to be on the safe side. when i was handling my students before sa OPD ky kapila ko kita ug seaman na magpa check na kuyog ang wife. they r given Rocephin either for treatment or prophylaxis for STDs. sori, i dont wish to be the bearer of this idea but better na practical and realistic!!!

thanks miss..cge, ako nya sya ingnun ana,...tandu2x raman to nako hehe...i mean..open-minded man jud to sya nga pagkatawo.. seryosohun man jud to sya uy...makaingon jud ko nga he is a man with principles...pero, arun mas sure...pa chek-up jud...ug kanihanglan dili mu palag...hehehe, bitaw nag storya nami about anang mga "akyat-barko girls" ug uban pa about ana...ana sya, nga depende rajud sa taw uy...ug matud pa niya...dili sya ganahan nga in the future..kargas unya konu ug skin amu mga anak..basta,positive jud ko nga dili jud sya pareha sa uban...but anyway, thanks sa advice..

[emjay23]

seaman- loloko, seaman- gagamit