MEN or WOMEN?

[richard79]

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asa man sa ilang duha ang pirmi... masayop? often makes wrong decisions, always confused, no clear goals, undecisive mostly when it comes to love, etc.

as for me ang pirmi masayop sa ilang decision ang mga babaye! daghan kaayo silag sayop when it comes to that. although i treat men and women equal pero sa akong tan aw mas grabe jed ang babaye!

unsay tan aw ninyo?

[tolstoi]

^^i agree..they are very erratic.

[Pixie77]

asa man sa ilang duha ang pirmi... masayop? often makes wrong decisions, always confused, no clear goals, undecisive mostly when it comes to love, etc.

as for me ang pirmi masayop sa ilang decision ang mga babaye! daghan kaayo silag sayop when it comes to that. although i treat men and women equal pero sa akong tan aw mas grabe jed ang babaye!

unsay tan aw ninyo?

Hey ayaw mo pag generalize.... if you're angry right now w/ one particular woman or undecisive ang imo gf bout nimo...ayaw ipagawas imo gibati through maligning all the women in this forum kay murag mag war jed ta ani da think first before you post....

You said you treat men and women as equal yet your very statement negates what you said... klaroha daw na bi! Treat us w/ respect para respetohon sad mo namo....

"pirmi... masayop? often makes wrong decisions, always confused, no clear goals, undecisive mostly when it comes to love, etc."


WAT?? OK KA LANG?!

[chaia]

are there any cebuanos, boholanos - 24-28 years old, roman catholic, loves their parents like crazy, loves pets (german sheperds), loves education . . . can we be friends - you can e-mail me chaia_m92@yahoo.com or you can reply to this post . . .

[tolstoi]

OT: sa classified ads na i post

[chaia]

you don't have to be mean ...

[garilaps]

@ chaia maybe you should post a new one..

women often times make the wrong decision and easily get confused.. sorry to say this but its the truth..

[kyuusai]

it is really the women because they are more emotional and keep on changing their thoughts...not like us men who are very decisive when it comes to make decisions..

[richard79]

asa man sa ilang duha ang pirmi... masayop? often makes wrong decisions, always confused, no clear goals, undecisive mostly when it comes to love, etc.

as for me ang pirmi masayop sa ilang decision ang mga babaye! daghan kaayo silag sayop when it comes to that. although i treat men and women equal pero sa akong tan aw mas grabe jed ang babaye!

unsay tan aw ninyo?

Hey ayaw mo pag generalize.... if you're angry right now w/ one particular woman or undecisive ang imo gf bout nimo...ayaw ipagawas imo gibati through maligning all the women in this forum kay murag mag war jed ta ani daÂ* Â* think first before you post....

You said you treat men and women as equal yet your very statement negates what you said... klaroha daw na bi! Treat us w/ respect para respetohon sad mo namo....

"pirmi... masayop? often makes wrong decisions, always confused, no clear goals, undecisive mostly when it comes to love, etc."


WAT?? OK KA LANG?!Â*

First of all, I dont want to malign other women nor would like to create war against them. i dont have any problems about relationships coz i'm already married and very much happy sa akong kaminyoon. This is just my opinion and I hope you are smart enough to understand that. but anyway i cant blame you man sa imong gipanulti nasakitan mo kay mao mana ang generally true. even my wife mo agree gyud ani.

fickle minded man kaayo ang mga babaye although naa puy lalake nga fickle minded pero mostly mga babaye. kasabot mo? mao nang kadaghanan ang mga babaye pirmi gyud masayop.

ang ako lang gusto ko nga mosulti lang kung unsay tinoud and i think mostly mga lalake mo agree gyud ani. dili kahibaw mo huna huna usahay kung unsay buhaton mag agad kaayo sa emotion. karong panahuna daghan na kaayo mga babaye nga mamabdos nga walay bana kay wala nila huna2 una ang outcome. naa pa gyud nga mangita og lalake nga naa nay uyab bisag kahibaw na nga naa nay uyab nang lakeha manguhit pa gyud. i mean things like this are examples.

sa part sa lalake chicksboy lang gyud kasagaran namo pero dili mi mag agad dayon sa emotions. ok? ok?

[karl007]

Men & Women: differences


Have you ever heard a seemingly normal woman saying something like, "I don't know what I do to turn men off. I seem to push them away. Maybe I'm too demanding, or not demanding enough. Men are so confusing."

And it could be that very same day that you hear a seemingly normal man, unrelated to the first woman, complaining: ‘I don't get women. I must be doing something wrong. Women are so hard to understand."

When men and women get together, there are, in effect, two worlds—his and hers. They have different values, priorities, and habits. They play by different rules.

Scientists have come to accept that a few fundamental differences between men and women are biological. It turns out that men's and women's brains, for example, are not only different, but the way we use them differs too. Women have larger connections and more frequent interaction between their brain's left and right hemispheres. This accounts for women's ability to have better verbal skills and intuition. Men, on the other hand, have greater brain hemisphere separation, which explains their skills for abstract reasoning and visual-spatial intelligence. Poet Robert Bly describes women's brains as a "superhighway" of connection while men’s brains connections are compared to a "little crookedy country road.'"

Different habits of men and women are explained by different roles in the process of evolution. Although life conditions have changed, both men and women tend to follow their biological programs.

Men tend to retain a firm sense of direction – they need to trace the game, catch it, and find the way home, while women have a better peripheral vision that helps them to see what’s happening around the house, to spot an approaching danger, to notice changes in the children’s behavior and appearance. Men’s brains are programmed to hunting, which explains their narrow range of vision, while women’s brains are able to decipher a wider range of information

When entering a room, men look for exits, estimating a possible threat, and ways of escape, while women pay attention to the guests’ faces to find out who they are and how they feel. Men are able to sort out information and archive it in their head. Women tend to ‘rewind’ the information over and over again. The only way to stop thinking of the problems is to talk it over. When a woman shares her problems with a man, she is not looking for solutions – she needs someone to listen to her.

Men prefer strident noises, hard handshakes, and red color. They are better at solving technical problems. Women have a sharper ear, they use more words while talking, and are better at completing tasks independently.

Based on these biologically explained differences, some psychological distinctions between men and women can be established:

- Men grasp a situation as a whole and think globally, while women think locally, relying on details and nuances.

- Men are builders and creators. They take risks and experiment, while women select the most valuable knowledge and pass it over to the next generation.

- Men are more independent in their thoughts and actions, while women are more willing to follow the ideas suggested by others.

- Women’s self-appraisal is lower than that of men. Women tend to criticize themselves, while men are more satisfied with their own performance.

- Men and women have different sources of satisfaction. For men it’s career and prosperity, while women value family and kids.

- Men have a pronounced need to fulfill their goals, and women rank relationships with others first.

- Men get sick twice as often as women, although women tend to be more concerned about their health.

- Women endure pain and monotonous work better than men.


All the above gets even more confusing, if we take into account that 15 to 20% of men happen to have a female type of brains, and about 10% of women have a male type of brains, which means that some percentage of men and women, no matter how small it seems, are partially programmed to the behavior and way of thinking of the opposite gender.

"Okay, I understand the problem", you are saying to yourself, but -"what's the solution"? That depends on whether you are a woman or a man.