HELP Ako uyab wala nako kasabot

[Red.Emano]

i just had a realization.

if marriage is not in your itinerary as of the moment, then there's no reason to get serious with this woman and busy your precious mind with her. Stop looking for women.

if companionship is what you're asking for, or if gapangita lang ka ug naay ma cuddle and "everything", then stay and have a one night stand with this woman. 1 night stand ra bitaw then forget her. Or find someone else.

if you're looking for a partner in life, then look for someone else nga dili na magpa dooding dooding.. Kung naay gusto ang babayi nimo(kanang dili bulsa o looks lang ang gi apas ha,), pangitaan gyud na nila ug paagi..

[luwid]

i will try sa akong makaya na ma-elaborate ni ky d pod ko gusto na mura lecture or di gyud lang ko kabaw mo hubad ani oi...he!3x unsaon man ha. k start....ambot lang kung mo tuo mo about psychology kani bang study sa human behavior? na ang person is comprised with a conscious and unconscious part? here r some terms ma-guided ta sa pagsabot:

conscious-it cud be anything from impulses, desires, actions or wishes na kanang kabaw ta, same ra gud sa aware ta na gibuhat nato ang usa ka butang.

unconscious- is the total opposite.

defense mechanisms by the way, are ways (psychological strategies) we use in our lives (whether conscious or unsconscious) to cope with reality or maintain our self image.

so base on the above ang "acting out" ky, outward expression of ur GF's unconscious impulse, wishes, deep seated desires maybe or ang iya pag panghasi , kalagot og uban pa are her expressive ways sa iyang mga unconscious impules na sya mismo wa makabaw sa emotional context ug nganong nag-ingon ni ana sya!

usa ray ako masulti nimo...change is possible if the person wills it! lisod bya ug discobre kung unsa ang taw from the start ug pwede ka abtang ug lifetime trying to figure things out pra masabtan... however will u be willing to risk it all?

ambot sakto bani sa pagka-hubad oi...na hala kamo nalay sabot further i hope nakatabang ko.

hi sis basin SUBCONSCIOUS imo gi mean
Subconsciuos = existing in the mind but not immediately available to consciousness

[dbmike]

i just had a realization.

if marriage is not in your itinerary as of the moment, then there's no reason to get serious with this woman and busy your precious mind with her. Stop looking for women.

if companionship is what you're asking for, or if gapangita lang ka ug naay ma cuddle and "everything", then stay and have a one night stand with this woman. 1 night stand ra bitaw then forget her. Or find someone else.

if you're looking for a partner in life, then look for someone else nga dili na magpa dooding dooding.. Kung naay gusto ang babayi nimo(kanang dili bulsa o looks lang ang gi apas ha,), pangitaan gyud na nila ug paagi..

i can't say na marriage na jd kay murag bata2 pa man jd ko.. skwela pa.. pero serious lang jd ako apas ani.. kapoy na kaau sige lang inamaw gud.. pero ambot.. galibog jd ko..

[Red.Emano]

i can't say na marriage na jd kay murag bata2 pa man jd ko.. skwela pa.. pero serious lang jd ako apas ani.. kapoy na kaau sige lang inamaw gud.. pero ambot.. galibog jd ko..

:o

Sakto! And I know exactly what you're thinking! i just want to ask something, na tilawan naba ang sabaw?

[vienzel]

nah.. na unsa na.. saon pd.. thanks kaau sa pag hubad vienzel ha murag nakasabot nako.. grabi sad diay nag effect ang unconscious na part.. i think kaybaw nako nsa ako buhaton.. tagaan nalang sa nako ug time siguro.. kung mausab, maau.. kung dili.. ahw.. buwag na jd siguro padung.. daghan jd kaau ko nakat.unan diri dah.. salamat kaau..

true, do u believe na ang conscious part sa taw is just like the TIP of the iceberg and the rest that is submerged below the water is equivalent sa unconscious part? ingon ni ana ang illustration sa unconscious side. but each person can differ from one another, of course labi na kung naa sya self awareness. lisod sabton ang taw per se kung daghan sya ug unfinished business from his/her past, dont limit sa personal relationships but i can be anything as long as part nya.

[NASYO]

ayaw na lang sabta para makasabot ka..

[jntio]

buwagi na para dghan nata

[NASYO]

basin naa na cya lain

[juleskiboi]

sa akong part, basin maka sukmag na jd ko sa babae ana...nawngon jd nako, para sunggohon bah...

ako tambag nimo bro, buwagi na oie...wala man gani xa maskin gamay kaikog or respeto sa imo mama ug nimo...

suwayi daw ikaw sulti/balikas about sa iyang mama, tan-awn ta ug malipay ba xa ana...

sorry bro kung ma offend ka: but kana imo uyab, sa iya gipakita sa imoha ug sa imong mama, wala syay grado, dili xa edukada and most of all, wala syay modo!! ayaw paka boang bro oie, uyab pa mo, buwagi na na samtang sayo pa...dili ra siya ang babae dire...

[pam]

For me, you have 3 options:

1. if fed up na ka, ug sa tan-aw nimo di na matabang...buwagan nimo...
2. know the roots kung ngano ingon ana siya (para pud makasabot ka asa na gikan nga batasan)... talk to her... tell her na dili na tama iyang gibuhat. If she respects you, she will stop it. if mahimo, argue with her... coz sa arguement diha man mo makahimo ug agreement. Goodluck ani bro, coz this process surely takes time and courage.
3. hala, mag-antos ka! and pahiubos ra ka pirmenti... cross your fingers na lang na magbag-o pa siya...

Well, goodluck sa imo bro...