
Originally Posted by
Khitty
well we need a bit more info. sometimes people don't have the same perception of what is considered as "cheating". so lets just assume its a serious cheating. if he/she cheated twice why do you still doubt if he/she deserves a second chance? if he/she cheated twice what makes you think he/she wont cheat for the 3rd time? personally, maybe i can forgive the first offense but second? no way, i got more self respect than that. but giving people a second, third, fourth or 100th chance is a personal decision. but ask your self some hard questions. can you really be truly happy in a relationship with someone who has repeatedly hurt you? do you want to be with someone you know you can not trust? do you really want to be in a relationship where you are always on guard and constantly worry that he might cheat again? remember, LEOPARDS NEVER CHANGE THEIR SPOTS!