HELP I pushed her away and now I'm broken

[crush_23]

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ala man jud dapat i-blame ..... its just that both were too weak to fight...pagsuway ra man jud nang mga away2 bah...naa ra jud na if magpada ta....well, meaning buwag bcoz d love isnt strong enuf lang jud para molahutay pa......

daghan lagi pwd ipuli pero maagian ra man ghapon na ang away2 ug disagreements ... naa man jud nah ... di na ma avoid jud..... bsan kinsa pay mapares sa kinabuhi.....mga lamas ra jud na cla..naa ra jud na sa nagkahigugmaay ang choice kung modugay cla or moundang nalang jud... =( kapoy baya sad btaw usahay.... hahay

[cla_kylem]

hayzz...karelate pod jud ko ani...i just broke up w/ my bf (or better say ex-bf) yesterday because he asked for it..he pushed me away..he gave up on me..he said he is letting go of me but the truth is he gave up on me..i've said painful words against him though i didn't mean everything i said..i was just really mad & hurt..same ra gud japon sa imong situation nga away2x ang reason..but i'm not sure if he's hurting too as much as i'm hurting..

ngano man gud nga gauna-una ka og push niya palayo nya nasakitan ra pod diay ka?i don't think small fights are enough reason for u to decide to let go/give up..having fights are part of a relationship..but since u've already decided then u have to face ur own mistake...u can still try to win her back esp. if di pa jud sila sa guy & if u believe she still loves u..show her how sincere u are..but u should also know when to let go...

try to listen to this song bro if u get a chance...

**The Art of Letting Go**

Put away the pictures, put away the memories
I put over and over through my tears
I've held them 'til I'm blind, they kept my hope alive
As if somehow that I'd keep you here
Once you believe in a love forevermore
How do you leave it in a drawer

Now here it comes, the hardest part of all
Unchain my heart that's holding on
How do I start to live my life alone
Guess I'm just learning, learning the art of letting go

Try to say it's over, say the word good bye
But each time it catches in my throat
You're still here in me and I can't set you free
So I hold on to what I wanted most
Maybe someday we'll be friends forevermore
Wish I could open up that door

Now here it comes the hardest part of all
Unchain my heart that's holding on
How do I start to live my life alone
Guess I'm just learning, learning the art of letting go

Watching us fade, what can I do
But try to make it through the pain
Of one more day without you

Where do I start to live my life alone
I guess I'm learning, only learning
Learning the art of letting go

[Baeybe_Bryce]

Bro...maybe u both need time...hv u heard of d saying.."love will find a way"..it will always be..if dat is love.
try to fix urself first..so dat she can see dat ur willing to get her back to ur lyf...but for now...let her see dat ur trying to get by wid ur lyf..making it better.

"Even if
you mean the whole damn world to me
I can forget you wait and see
I can be strong even without you
I can't waste my life forever hoping you'll
Come back to me
But deep inside I know
I'll be waiting here for you"

[vienzel]

wow...mang gawas gyud ng mga songs of the heart no? hahahaha...

with my 7 yrs relationship before, i thought i wud not open a window for me to look back. but deep inside, i did...it was just too bad that the guy has not proven his worth after all ( i saw him with someone 4 mos after the breakup). i know it was a risk for me to take, turning my back on him for a lot of reasons. but in the end, i made the right decision.

in ur part kung ikaw ang nakasala...make up for it. prove ur worth and be patient. dont expect an instant quick fix of wat u have done. u have hurt someone deeply...and its not easy or there is no easy way to gain her trust back. u need to work hard on it. m not speaking for women who just want to make even huh! ul c the signs of those women anyway kung gusto lang mo balos and does not really like to work it out again.

[rl]

grabe guys thanks for the advice, it meant a lot, i asked for 2months na matigbalik ko nya but she said, sa 2 months no Communication at all, no text no email gyd, so after 2 months we will see, but she said, kansi daw ko maybe by that time makauyab na cya. but still i will wait for 2 months lng sad to see what happens..

[Motownkid]

pa-cheeseburger unya bro ha kung magbalik na mo!...

kung dili na jud, aw pongko2x na lang payts ra..

[vienzel]

that's a gud option...not too long to wait and practical ra sad sa imo na side. dont worry, kung nagbag-o ka then, it wont be your LOSS! women can tell the difference if we are treated and loved well. think of this as ur risk na either ul gain her back or not! if YES balik mo, dont repeat ur mistake and if NO, its not the end of the world...learn from it! the next time ul take love in your hands....dont take it forgranted na!

[chad_tukes]

@rl: sorry to hear that bro. nagbasa ko ani nga thread i'm teary eyed. OA noh? di bitaw.

anyway, a quick solution to that is to find a REBOUND girl. but if you ask any guy around, that's not really a good thing--that would be that very last option. it's like throwing in a red flag in an olympic event. a very last option not worth taking.

as for you waiting two months with hopes of getting her back--i don't think that's really a good option. you'll end up hurting yourself more. reason being? you're literally waiting for nothing. the fact that the girl is dating only means she's willing to move on. and guess what, you should be doing the same.

[aprilaprilapril]

uhhh you gotta stop blaming yourself for what had happend, you know for a fact that that cant bring her back. always think about yourself first, give time for yourself to heal. i say go out with friends and have fun. try getting a life again, i know its a cliche but bro it works. just try to improve yourself and not do the same mistakes over and over because thats really really irritating, listen, im a girl, or at least i think i am, i know what makes women irritated. anndd umm youre hurting too much because you cannot take the fact that she had moved on and you still havent, uhh just learn to let go bro.. like.. wholeheartedly..

[ajol]

i think you are so possessive...

sometime its good also to let her be....

kuyog mo everytime maka puol na... give her a leave... ana mana.... pasagdi pud panagsa....

"absence makes the heart grow fonder.... "

but its probably too late.....