only god knows god. so i would just say it is simply wrong that anyone would tell me: this is god's way... it is his word... this is what he wants....
murag "what the **** do you know who, how or what he is

?!!" if that is what he told you then he can simply tell me the same thing.
"god works in mysterious and indirect ways" you say? that's still a line from someone who claims to know who he is.
Penn from the show Bullsh*t rephrased that line by saying: "God works in cryptic and inefficient ways of spreading his word." That was after they scrutinized the 10 plagues of Egypt (which they also showed never happend) by saying that instead of just telling the Pharaoh himself iya pa gyud daw gipaagi ug 10 plagues. He could simply have saved all the trouble by saying so.
Some people like to paint a portrait of a god that likes to mock and manipulate people in twisted ways.