OT: @theused - basig asa man lang ta massag brod hehe
the guy is not obligated to go back to the girl. and the girl's pregnancy is not the guy's sole responsibility. SILA DUHA gabuhat ana.
he is obligated, though, to provide for the child.
i understand that na-insecure ka nga basin magbalik sila. ang dili nako masabtan why kelangan cya mubalik ato nga girl tungod lang kay nabuntis ang girl.
kung sauna panahon pa na nahitabo, makasabot pa tingali ko. pero pila naman kabuok ang gaminyo tungod lang kay nabuntis unya magbulag ra gihapon?
pregnancy is not a reason to get married. and, kung babae ka, unless you are capable of raising your child by yourself, never ever get pregnant kung dili pa nimo bana ang laki.
babae ko. pero dili ko kasabot why everytime naay mabuntis ang lalake ra ang basulon unya dapat magminyo jud.
dapat kitang mga babae, we should have balls, because some men don't.
you're in a very complicated situation girl. and making the right decision is the task at hand. sus kalisud ra buh jud e.decide if your heart and mind tells you another thing. i think diri mo.apply ang "think wether you have a better heart or a better mind.
don't just think of the present. think long term girl. maybe okay pa karon kai the guys is saying na it's you he loves more. and the baby isn't born yet. but in the future? what about when the baby's there already?
sakto sila when they said, i dili pa kau mo dugay, better let go. i know it will be painful. letting go always is. but that's when you can move on. you may cry at night but it will end. time is of the essence. but for sure it will end. you'll be fine sooner than you think it will. the pain will subside and you'll be happy again. diba kaw ra pud niingun na you are unhappy, confused, hurt and you find yourself crying when you are alone? the same thing. you are only prolonging the agony. you cry now and then what? cry again later? where in if you let go, you'll cry for now but be over him and be happy again.
but of course, ang amo tambag lang. the decision is yours still. whatever that is...
be strong. in LOve, risks are involve. just be READY to face the consequences of the decision you come up with...
kini.. aw paksit jud ang uyab ani.... manggawas na tanan spiel sa iyahang bocabyolaryo ani... hehehe isplikar jud dong....
if he realy loves you.. he can just support his child with his ex gf.. if you really love him too i accept kung unsa siya... and whatever decision he gonna make...
ngano jud noh? nasakitan nah, igo na ang pride, nag-antos pa, pero we choose to stay...ironic kaayo...and the sad thing is, we know the wound won't heal unless we get out of the situation...
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