HELP My BF nabuntis niya iyang Ex- What to do?

[edshark]

haist kafaet... if kaya nimo i let go... cge padaun.. i gez wla pa mo kaabot og 1 year..
and if dli nimo kaya mawala cya.. be sure lng pd nga tinuod jd nga love ka niya... kay ang iyang "XGF" nadala pd to sa pasalig nga dli niya biyaan before niya napabuntisan... opinion lng pd ni nako..

[jvadolfo_1983]

bitaw, agree ko nimo edshark....

[mike-portnoy]

of course it wouldnt be that easy...been there, done that...i juz believe though that a guy can still support a baby wthout necessarily marrying the baby's mother... if i love him, i will aslo learn to love his baby...of course thr would be complications later on, but i believe ths can be settled if u two will find ways to work things out...it would also help if ur family and the guy's family would support ur decision...if not, then goodluck!question though, if u were the guy, whom would u choose? the x nga napabuntisan nimo but dili nimo love, or the present nga love au nimo

i agree!!! sa bala-od princess, way pugsanay....dli mapugos ang laki ug pag marry sa iya napabuntisan. ang habol ra sa girl ana support lng sa baby. but kng independent ang girl then ipakita niya nga makaya niya dli cya mag salig laki. not unless ang laki kay c john gokongwei jr. kay gukuron jud na sa girl maski asa sa kalibutan mo sok2x! ma husay pa nya cguro ang gubat sa mindanao kaysa nila duha! harharhar!!!

i wer u....try to hold-on! if nakita nmo sincere ang laki sa imoha den he's worthy of your love......but save some for yourself.

im in this situation right now. but im the guy and i have a 7yr. old daughter......i want my girlfriend to hold on coz i love her. the sad thing is married lng ko sa akng x-wife. but 3yrs nami nagbuwag......haaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaayyyyyyyy shiballl!!!!!!!!!!

[r3roble]

hi, have you tried digging up your BF's track record? is this the first time he does something like this or something shall i say irresponsible (sorry for the harsh word)?
do you have plans already to settle down? it's his responsibility to support his child, so can you live with this? do you trust him with everything? if you have a possitive answer to this, then by all means, hold on... things happen for a reason and theres always a solutiion to every problem.

[simply_wife]

Tough situation… if I were in your situation, this would be very difficult if u really love the guy. U need to talk to him and say what u feel. If he truly loves you, nisulti unta sya sa tanan nimo before pa to see that his love is sincere and avoid that situation now.. what if time comes that he’ll say na d na sya ganahan nimo, like the way he did sa iyang ex-gf? How would u feel?

Let him face that problem, and when it is already resolved even w/o marrying his ex-gf. Just be distant for the moment, try to find yourself and think a hundred times. If you’re really staying with him, u must accept everything even his child. There would always a consequences to that, think of the pros and cons of it…

Ask for the Lord’s guidance to lead you on the right decision…God bless!

[theused]

ug ngano na buntis man man iyahang ex? meaning nag ****** sila while kamo pa? unsa logical explanation niya why niya na buhat to? pero kng buntis na daan before nagka kamo... ang pangutana .. la diay ka kahibaw na buntis na kamo na?.....


ofcourse.. naa ra jud na nimo... para nako obvious naman sad jud kaayo gud...

[mo0nstar88]

Here my suggestion.

You used let him go... even do love kaayo imo cya try to tell him na managutan niya kung unsa ilang gibuhat ang problem na dili cya kung dili ang bata na ilahan duha if u ignore it mo abot ang time na magproblema jud mo about ana..

sayop na nila duha nganong nag ****** the prob if mabuntisan ka niya? og same sad matabo ganahan ka?

[theused]

Here my suggestion.

You used let him go... even do love kaayo imo cya try to tell him na managutan niya kung unsa ilang gibuhat ang problem na dili cya kung dili ang bata na ilahan duha if u ignore it mo abot ang time na magproblema jud mo about ana..

sayop na nila duha nganong nag ****** the prob if mabuntisan ka niya? og same sad matabo ganahan ka?

bitaw... wat if malampasan ni ninyu duha ron... who knows mao rani inyu permi lalisan in the future.... sayup jud ngano nag breakup ****** pa sila duha... not just the fault of the guy.. pero sa ex as well... kai ni patol man sad ang ex sa agebs sa laki

[taga_ipil]

bulagi na imo uyab then ngita ug walay committment nga laki.
paet kaayo na ug dako possibilidad ikaw nasab ang mabutang sa sitwasyon sa babaye pohon.

pero hinoon, nindot kay instant tita naka..

[ajol]

ayaw na palibog.....

pag ma muslim nalang mo

pwede man 5 wives...