Being a Parent to your Parents

[Velvet]

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^ just curious. pila diay idad sa imo mama?

[junenine]

I give them financial support since I started making living. I know that the older they are getting, it seems like the more they dislike each other. First, I feel awkward to talk about relationship with my own parents but hey, after 45 years of marraige with 6 children, what happen to the sparks. What happen to the "till death do us part"? It's so sad.[br][size=1]

[madzZz]

yes even though im not expressing it to them..
love nako sila.. bisan ako papa palahubog
kapoy atiman sa ako papa but wa ko mahimo kami raman jud maka hatag ana niya...


ako mom naa rajud permi para namo.. grabeh puds iya sacrifices.. im so thankful to have a mother like her..
and all the siblings i have...

[susan7704]

i believe my parents coz they are still together until now...coz they really love each other well and i hope when i can have a family again i want to be like them...happy and loved

[lima_sierra]

what if we put them on the HOME FOR THE AGED? whats your opinion guys?

i think thats the worse thing na maexperience nila. just because kabalo na ta to survive on our own we can just ditch them? oh yes you paid for that institution and somebody are taking care of them but they will not be happy. unya ang uban panagsa lang mo bisita. they have patience with us since we were baby until kabalo na ta mo dala sa atong kinabuhi. we should give them the same patience. dili sayon magpadako ug anak so we should always be grateful for that!

[janninat]

i am very much 'at-home' with this topic.

you see, i stayed away from home for about 6 years only to realize that i am doing it to head the family. work and decide. been doing that for my parents for 6 years already. and believe me, its reeeeeaaaaalllllyyyyy frustrating. badlongon nga mga tiguwang. kung kanus-a na tiguwang dha magkiat.

but its the reason why i am still standing up. the responsibility that is.

relate ko ani, am the breadwinner though daghan mi magsoon pero ako ra jud ang ning take responsibility sa ako mama,nya naa ko magulang laki naa sa amo mao pa labanan sa ako mama, nya wala trabaho...sus very frustrating jud, badlongon nga pagkatiguwang dili pasulti...